Pagandad.com first emerged with the immense popularity of the fictional erotic novel “Fifty Shades of Grey.” We thought it was time to give the kinky-curious people a reality-based understanding of the actual psychology, sexuality and the relationship dynamics within a real Dominant/submissive relationship. The film, “Fifty Shades of Grey” was a sheer work of fiction without any real framework or perception of BDSM relationships based on the “Twilight” romantic trilogy marketed to sexually restrained suburban women.

For the record, we have no tattoos or any body piercings, and we never wear leather except as a winter jacket. We are a group of highly intelligent, well-educated, and talented professionals. So, we may not be precisely what you may think of when you think about a person involved in BDSM, fetishes or kinky sex.

This blog is dedicated to educating and informing people about Sensual Domination. We hope you find our writings thought-provoking, insightful, and informative. Everyone is welcome to post questions—there are no dumb questions in this journey of sexual discovery.