13 Unusual Sexual Practices From Around The World

People have been getting freaky in the bedroom (and outdoors) for centuries, and sometimes, things get pretty crazy. Whether it’s because of tradition, culture or just general kinkiness, there’s a bunch of weird sexual customs the world over that make you go WTF.

Check them out!

1. Boys & girls of the Sambian tribe have to drink semen

The Sambian Tribe of New Guinea have a tradition of separating their boys from the girls at the age of 7 for 10 years. During this period, they undergo piercings, nose bleeds and have to drink the semen of the tribes mightiest warriors. Game over.

2. Girls of the Trobriander Tribe engage in sexual acts from age 6

The Trobriander Tribe from Papua, New Guinea embrace sexuality from an astonishingly young age. Boys start engaging in sexual activity from the age of 10-12, while the girls start from 6 years! Isn’t that illegal?

3. In Mangaia, older women have sex with young boys

In Mangaia, an island in the South Pacific Ocean, boys around the age of 13 have sex with older women who teach them the intricacies of the act and how best to please their partners. One way ticket please!

4. In Rural Austria, women feed armpit-flavoured apples to their suitor

In rural Austria, young women do a ritual dance with apple slices stuffed in their armpits. After the dance, each gives her slice to the man of her choice, and he then eats it.

5. The Kreung Tribe builds love huts where teenaged girls can have sex with different men till they find the one

With the Kreung Tribe in Cambodia, the elders build a love-hut for their teenage daughters. Different boys spend the night here day after day, until she finds a suitable partner, who is then with her for life.

6. In Ancient Greece, men took young boys as lovers

For Ancient Greeks, sexual identity didn’t depend on gender and preference but on who was the active penetrator and who was the penetratee(?). The active role was associated with higher social status, while the passive role meant youth and feminity, or ‘boy love’ in other words.

7. In certain Nepali tribes, brothers share one woman

Some Nepali tribes in the Himalays practise polyandry. Basically, all the brothers share one woman, so that they don’t have too many children for their limited farmland.

8. The Wodaabe Tribe holds a wife-stealing festival every year

In the Wodaabe Tribe of Niger in West Africa, children are married in their infancy. However, at the yearly Gerewol Festival, Wodaabe men wear elaborate makeup and costumes and try to covertly steal another’s wife. If they go undetected, their union becomes recognised.

9. Public masturbation ceremonies were held in Ancient Egypt

Ancient Egypt was obsessed with masturbation. They believed the ebb and flow of the Nile was caused by their god of creation’s ejaculation. Thus, they would ritually masturbate into the Nile to ensure a wealth of water for crops. During the Egyptian festival of the god Min, who represented the pharaoh’s sexual power, men regularly masturbated in public.

10. In Indonesia, you can have sex outside marriage during Pon celebration

During the celebration of Pon in Indonesia, participants have to spend the night and have intercourse with someone other than their wife or husband. It is said that their wishes of good luck will only come true if they have sex with the same person at all seven celebrations throughout the year.

11. Adolescents of the Muria Tribe, Chattisgarh, can ‘practise’ sex without emotional attachment

The Muria Tribe from Chattisgarh have a very sexually liberated culture. They have mixed-sex dormitories where adolescents are sent to practice premarital sex, sometimes with a single partner and sometimes serially. They are discouraged from becoming emotionally attached to their partners.

12. In Inis Beag, near Ireland, people make love with their underwear on

The people of Inis Beag, an island off the coast of Ireland, are so sexually repressed that they keep their underwear on even during sexual intercourse. Smart.

13. Women of the Guajiro tribe must make a man ‘fall’ to make love

Colombia’s Guajiro people have a ceremonial dance. If a woman trips a man during the dance, they must have sex.

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BDSM Rituals And Why You Need Them

Rituals are an important part of any healthy BDSM relationship. They help the Dominant and submissive remember their roles, and can be a way to stay centered and focused. But creating powerful and easy Dom/sub rituals (that don’t fizzle out) can be challenging. Read on to discover proven examples of D/s rules and protocols, and maybe pick up some new ideas to transform your connection.

What are BDSM rituals?

Sometimes people will use the words rituals, rules, and protocols interchangeably but they are slightly different. A BDSM protocol is a hard and fast rule usually listed in a D/s contract. A ritual is more of a way of carrying out something. It almost always involves an action where the Dom prescribes a series of behaviors for their pleasure and benefit.

Why have Dom/sub rituals?

Rituals are a way to discipline a sub. They teach them obedience and submission and keep them in the right frame of mind. This is true for the Dom as well. Sometimes if a sub has been allowed to act too bratty or is topping from the bottom, a ritual can snap both parties back into their role.

I really enjoy my rituals and view them as almost solemn and spiritual. When I perform a ritual it feels somewhat ceremonial even. I take pleasure in knowing I’m doing something my Daddy wants and that makes him happy.

Examples of D/s rituals, rules, and protocols

Rituals are automatic and a good sub shouldn’t have to be asked to do it every time. If a sub does forget (they’re not perfect) they should be disciplined to the proper degree. A good Dom doesn’t make up rituals just for the sake of having one. There should be a reason for them and should be for their pleasure. To give you some ideas, here are a few examples of the rules and protocols my Daddy has for me:

1. Kneeling
My Daddy usually goes to bed before me since he wakes up early, so once I’m all ready for the night, I sit in the bed next to him and kneel. If he doesn’t wake up by then I will lightly rub him and say, “I’m ready for bed now, Daddy.” If he hasn’t gone to bed yet I’ll kneel on the floor instead and wait for permission to get in bed. He also has me kneel before a scene as well.

2. Arrival greeting
This is another popular ritual and one I can safely perform in front of others. When he comes home, wherever I am in the house and no matter what I’m doing, I go and greet him with a kiss and tell him, “Hi Daddy”.

3. A morning text
My Daddy decided on the joint ritual of every morning texting each other. He usually texts me first to tell me good morning and that he loves me. I reply with how I’m feeling, a detailed plan for my day, and that I love him. I love waking up and seeing a text from him, and this also allows him to make sure I’m getting up when I’m supposed to.

4. Collars
There are so many ways to incorporate collars with rituals. Currently we have two. The first one is I have to wear my Day Collar whenever I leave the house or around company. If he’s home he will put it on for me. Second, when I kneel before a scene he puts my Play Collar on me.

5. Shaving
Sometimes in vanilla relationships, shaving becomes a chore that’s done begrudgingly even though the other partner prefers it. Making it a D/s ritual can make it more enjoyable. I always make sure I’m freshly shaven for my Daddy, and I also get a Brazilian wax about every 3 weeks. (As a masochist, I actually love getting it done.)

6. Punishments
You probably don’t think of punishments when you’re discussing rituals, but they can actually go together quite nicely. When the sub misbehaves, the Dom can tell them to get whatever implement they choose (belt, flogger, crop, etc.). The sub has to go get it, kneel, and present it in their hands, with their palms facing up. This can make the discipline more degrading, and as a result, more effective.

Can Doms have BDSM rituals too?

Yes and no. Doms will do certain actions as a routine but they are never expected to do it, as they are allowed to do whatever they want. An example is how my Daddy opens doors for me. Before I get in the car or enter a building he will almost always open the door for me, and it makes me love and respect him as my Dom even more each time. Other ideas are combing or braiding the sub’s hair at night, ordering for them at restaurants, and staying on the outside of their sub when they’re walking on the street.

When a D/s ritual isn’t working

It may be that after performing certain rituals they will have to be modified or eliminated. Here’s an example that happened to us one time:

Every morning when Daddy was at work I had to let him decide my panties for the day. I’d pick out three, lay them in a row, take a picture, and text it to him. This was fun at first and I did it for almost a month. It ended up causing me a lot of stress though. There were many mornings I would have to rush because it was taking up too much time. I told my Dom, knowing full well he could say, “You’re doing it anyway.” But instead, he said he would think about it and let me know the next day. Thankfully he told me I could stop. He still makes choices on my panties from time to time, and will often tell me to wear none when I’m in a dress or skirt.

So if a ritual isn’t working in a D/s dynamic, a sub can always talk to their Dom about it respectively, or through a journal.

One of the best ways to make sure a ritual is remembered and carried out is to write it down. Hopefully these examples have given you some ideas for creating your own BDSM rules and protocols. Keep finding peace in your rituals. They benefit both the Dom and the sub and are essential for transformation, training, and discipline.

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7 Sex Rituals That Have Thankfully Died Out

In ancient history, there have been a lot of extremely strange rituals when it comes to sex. Here are a few that we are glad died out!

1. Spending your first night married in a sack.

Back in the 17th century, the English used to practice something known as ‘bundling’. When a young teenage couple got married, they would be allowed to sleep in a bed together but their parents didn’t want to have another mouth to feed 9 months down the line.

To combat this the girl would put on a sack which would be tied tightly around her waist so her husband couldn’t get in. As well as that they were tucked tightly into bed together and a board was inserted in the middle of the bed to keep them well and truly away from each other.

2. Customs are really weird in Papua New Guinea

The boys of the Sambia Tribe in Papua New Guinea had probably the cruelness rite of passage of all. Before they were accepted as men into the tribe they were separated from the women and then forced to give fellatio to the strongest warriors in the tribe.

By doing this, the boys were then considered men and welcomed back into their tribe.

3. The Guajiro People of Columbia

These people believe that if a woman can successfully trip a man over while you are dancing with him then the two of you must have sex.

Imagine a nightclub in Dublin if these rules applied!!!

4. Love potions were seriously nasty things

All through the ages people used to drink/ eat love potions to try and improve their odds with the opposite sex. The ingredients that went into them were usually awful, ranging from gypsum, which is used in wall construction, to hyena eyes.

Love potions in France often contained flies and menstrual blood.

5. There were places in Ireland where they never took off their clothes

This one is a bit out there but when an anthropologist called John Cowan Messenger visited the island of Inis Beag off the coast of Connemara he found them to be amongst the most sexually repressed in the world! This was an account he made when he visited back in the 60s:

“Inis Beag, a small island off the coast of Ireland, is among the most naive and sexually repressive societies in the world. The islands abhor nudity, with adults washing only the parts of the body that extend beyond their clothing.

“Even marital partners keep underclothes on during sexual activity.

“The male has orgasm quickly and immediately falls asleep. Men believe that intercourse is hard on their health and will not engage in sex the night before an energy-demanding task. Moreover, they do not approach their wives sexually during menstruation or for months after childbirth.”

Madness!

6. The Church chose missionary as the least sinful position

The church had a lot to say about sex and decided that missionary was the only position couples could do without being sinful.

If the woman was on top or if doggy-style was being tried these would mess with traditional male/ female roles.

If a couple were caught doing a ‘sinful position’ they could be sentenced to 3 years penance! No thanks!

7. Ancient Chinese men were not allowed to ejaculate

In ancient China, many people were into Taoism. Taoism believes that we all have a lot of chi which is essentially our life force. Inside the body, the chi is called jing and they believe that sperm contains the most amount of jing. Losing jing can cause illness or death.

As a result of this belief Chinese men would have sex but had to not ejaculate which was very difficult for them. Especially since they were advised to have a lot of sex to produce jing.

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BDSM As Ritual

The Equinox at Blackthorne Manor was a wonderful and yet serious time, as always. As the shortening days promote introspection and a greater sense of community. We tend to talk more, about what the Manor means to all of us who have made it our lives’ work, and what it means to our guests. The fact that we are all pagan, of one sort or another and to a greater or lesser degree of diligence, and that our guests might be similarly described has always seemed such a natural state of affairs that no-one before has thought to raise the issue in discussion.

We were at dinner with a crowd of friends after the equinox ritual relishing the finest of traditional celtic dishes; roast pork loin with vegetables (Muicc-fheoil), pottage (Craibechan), oatcakes, honey and butter, cheese, apples and shortbread. Well, we had polished that lot off, and were well into the best mead, which may have prompted the remarks “so what is it about pagans that we love to dress up in leather and have sex and flog each other?” “And what is it about the leatherfolk with their ritualized Rites of Passage?” “Come to think of it, how about those Russian flagellant sects that were vegetarian?”

It would be impossible to transcribe verbatim the hilarious, raunchy, speculative and occasionally thoughtful debate that followed, but there were a lot of interesting points made, and I offer the following comparison of the Pagan and the BDSM communities in the three areas of Beliefs, Practices and Personal Qualities as a basis for further winter fireside discussion.

Importance of Ritual

The act of ritualizing an event or activity can dramatically increase the impact of that activity on an individual. Particularly when that individual is the focus of attention in the ritual then marked changes in perception of self and surroundings may occur. A Rite of Passage ritual in the Pagan community may, for example, celebrate the transition into adulthood for a young person. A similar ritual in the BDSM community is often used, although generally with less dramatic flair, to test and acknowledge a dominants’ mastery of a new skill. In both cases there is a challenge to the individual to show that they are ready for new responsibilities and privileges. The ritualizing of the process emphasises that new responsibilities are to be taken seriously, that they have an effect upon others when exercised and thus there is a social dimension in that there is a community interest in the exercise of the newly bestowed power.

Direct experience of the spiritual realm

Participation in both Pagan ritual and a BDSM “Scene” frequently induces an elevated state of consciousness more commonly associated with religious or spiritual practice. The experience is direct, with no need for an authoritative intermediary. The pagan ritualist and the dungeon master alike are facilitators of the process, shaping the ritual and directing the attention of the participants to enable the experience of trance or sub-space, rather than invoking a highter power on behalf of the participants.

Sexual arousal as a personal resource

Here too the commonality of the Pagan and the BDSM communities in this aspect is most apparent when examined in contrast to popularly accepted belief. The intensely rational mainstream western culture does not formally acknowledge the healing and transformational effects of sexual ecstasy, admitting only physical pleasure, if indeed it strays beyond the reproductive imperative and the concept of marital duty. The alternative communities regard sex as one way of raising energy, inspiring and focusing willpower, to achieve personal growth, insight and change. This intent is recognized within the tantric yogas, but its pervasiveness across other cultures and practices has remained obscure.

The importance of transcendence

Within the BDSM and Pagan communities there is a belief that a fulfilling life is one that offers transcendence. The identification of boundaries that contain the individual’s’ experience of life, and define other’s experience of that individual is a common endeavor, and the desire to explore the realms beyond these physical, mental and emotional boundaries is a common goal of ritual and practice. The Body Modification Movement for example seeks to change the perception that the body that one is born with is immutable outside the ravages of age, accident and disease.

Politics

The political views of these communities are more varied than one might imagine. It is a curious fact that some Christian chat boards on the net that extoll the virtues of obedience and worship are indistinguishable in substance from BDSM community forums. There are some deeply conservative, profoundly masochistic individuals within the BDSM community and similarly doctrinal pagans. The extremes of left and right are well represented, and engage in familiar debate within the language and norms of the subcultures.

Hedonism

Whether Sybarite or Ascetic, the Pagan or Leatherman acknowledges the power of sensual experience by indulging or deliberately denying it. From the pagan Temple of Aphrodite to the bonds, blindfolds and mortification of the Scene, the manipulation of physical experience complemented by a ritually focused and elevated consciousness is a core aspect of Pagan and Scene practice.

Festivals

Both communities delight in holding festivals, from long weekends to week-long events. Festivals are opportunities to live the lifestyle in community for a while, without the necessity of reverting to a “normal” persona to present to the world at large. In order to ensure that the greater freedom of the festival environment does not translate to inappropriate, invasive behaviour, the respective communities have developed policies and procedures to ensure that the responsibilities that go with freedom are not overlooked by immature or exploitative individuals. For many, the greatest hazard of going to festival, whether pagan or kink, is the unpleasantness of re-entry into conventional society. The adaptation back to regular clothes and cautious behaviour may take several days of conscious effort before it becomes habitual again. For some first time attendees, the definition of normal is changed forever.

Self policing and protective community structure

Subcultures that refuse to adopt the conventions and norms of society-at-large are universally vulnerable to attempts by that greater society to disallow the public or even the private expression of the subculture. However powerful and unassailable the subculture feels itself to be, there are inevitably legal remedies that can be used against them, and ultimately, established civil authorities may invoke the force of arms to impose their wishes. Subcultures can generally only survive by being inoffensive, invisible, or rebel heroes, and in the case of the Pagan and BDSM communities, amongst others, are particularly vulnerable to former members who decide to “blow the whistle” in revenge for personal slights. The tolerance of local authorities evaporates quickly when they are forced to pay attention to something so as not to appear unrepresentative of community interests. Thus these communities pay a great deal of attention to screening new members of organized groups, and self-policing for abusive or attention-getting behaviour. The value of discretion is emphasised, as is responsibility within and outside of the organization.

Personal Qualities

Especially in the light of the last paragraph above outlining the potential legal problems faced by members of the Pagan and BDSM communities it is not surprising that there is a rigorous darwinian selection process at work within the communities. The naive, the stupid and the troublesome are usually excluded. It is found that members of these communities are generally better educated, have a greater degree of autonomy, are more charitable and compassionate and less susceptible to peer pressure than is usually found. Although their integrity will be closely examined, newcomers are welcome and knowledge is freely shared. There is a great deal of fun and adventure to be had, and lasting friendships are widespread as well as a strong sense of community in the traditional sense of like minded folk coming together to share common interests, help each other out, educate where there is interest and defend against attack.

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Inside The World Of Witches Who Practice BDSM

On a recent Friday night at the DoubleTree hotel near the San Jose airport, nearly a hundred Pagan BDSM enthusiasts gathered in a conference room. In the middle of the room sat a small table adorned with a brightly colored cloth and several floggers of varying sizes.

Chairs lined the outer edge of the room, and when those quickly filled up, people sat, reclined, and outright laid on the floor of the hotel’s aggressively autumn-themed carpet. This was the Sacred BDSM workshop at PantheaCon, the largest Pagan convention on the West Coast, which includes numerous non-traditional spiritual traditions that fall under the Pagan umbrella.

Though the San Jose DoubleTree may strike you as the least witchy locale imaginable, it was anything but on this long weekend in February, when thousands gathered to meet, learn, network, conduct rituals and play. Age range and attire at the Sacred BDSM workshop ran the gamut, from teens to retirees, from tie-dye to military, mesh bodices, combat boots, utilikilts, flowing skirts and hair dyed every shade of the rainbow.

Dressed in a floor-length black gown and bondage collar, Linda Spencer, the workshop’s presenter, opened with a discussion of safe BDSM practices and consent, then largely let attendees steer the discussion, which was respectful, but not without its funny moments. One white-haired gentleman in jeans and a button-down asked Spencer if she needed any volunteers, and if so, said he would like to offer himself. A young woman spoke about how discovering BDSM helped her recover from sexual trauma, and several sex workers discussed the Pagan archetype of the “sacred whore,” and championed the concept of sex work as a form of spiritual practice.

“We welcome sexuality as yet another experience not to be ashamed of.” — Linda Spencer

BDSM actually has a storied history within Paganism. Both BDSM and Paganism, in varied forms, have been around for eons. But as a movement, Paganism came to the public consciousness in the 1950s, mainly through one charismatic and somewhat controversial British man, Gerald Gardner, the godfather of Traditional Wicca. Gardnerian Wicca often employed mild BDSM techniques in rituals—scourging (flogging), skyclad (public nudity) and bondage. Another leading British figure, Aleister Crowley, leader of the occult fraternal order Ordo Templi Orientis, hosted magic experiments and drug-fueled sex parties, which were much sensationalized in the tabloids of the day.

There are people who view Paganism’s sex rituals and sexual initiations—like Gardner’s Great Rite, which can involve nudity, scourging and semi-public heterosexual intercourse—as questionable and potentially resulting in abuses of power. As such, consent and ethics in Pagan communities are heavily discussed, not merely in relation to BDSM but more broadly—this year’s PantheaCon also offered workshops like “Creating Culture of Consent: Sacred Sexuality.” Generally, Paganism is more sex-positive compared to most mainstream religions, with its welcoming attitudes about sexual diversity, inclusion and the belief that magic is inherently sexual. As Spencer, the workshop leader, put it, “We welcome sexuality as yet another experience not to be ashamed of.”

“Kink also does something that many Pagans value: It lets you go on a journey.” — Dr. Carol Queen

When looking back at her former life as a sex worker, Dr. Carol Queen—a sexologist, Pagan and author of several books, including The Sex and Pleasure Book with Shar Rednour—said that the concept of sacred kink has been significant to her. “Modern Goddess spirituality,” a spiritual practice that takes the feminine as its higher power, “makes the argument that some sex workers of yore were priestesses who ‘showed the face of the Goddess’ to men for money,” she said. This evolved into the “sacred whore” archetype, which holds that sex, including sex for money, can take the form of spiritual enlightenment.

Queen also noted that while kinksters and Pagans don’t always overlap, they do have much in common. “Both groups might understand themselves as building an alternative community outside of mainstream norms,” she said. “Kink also does something that many Pagans value: It lets you go on a journey.”

For Spencer, this journey is both a cathartic and spiritual and occurs “at the insistence of pain” with her partner, which she likens to aspects of certain Native American rituals, such as a vision quest. “I don’t know necessarily that he views it like that, but he does seem to feel moved to make me have emotional experiences … I am in control of so many things in my day to day life that my need to let go and have someone else take control, even if it is for a little while, is extremely freeing for me.”

Spencer stresses that play with her partner is always loving and attentive, and progresses from gentle spanking or caning to more intense acts, as she moves through a range of emotions. “First, I’ll start happy and giddy. I will move into a type of defiance, usually laughing while I squirm. I then move into a process of experiencing the pain and trying to be in the moment, always voicing my likes and dislikes at what he is doing,” she says. “Next, I tend to move into a very quiet acceptance of what is happening … At some point, I completely lose all composure.” For the two, these acts are ritualistic and intense: “These experiences are transformative, if we both allow them to be, and it is beautiful.”

“Sacred sex and sacred kink do something very crucial for many people: They give a kind of spiritual permission for erotic desire and practice.” — Dr. Carol Queen

Panels on BDSM/sacred kink are increasingly common at Pagan festivals and conferences, and this is likely due in part to a broader acceptance of BDSM in the mainstream. Until just a few years ago, kinky sex was considered a mental illness. In 2013, the American Psychiatric Association removed BDSM from its newest edition of its Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. The new definitions meant that consenting adults were no longer pathologized for engaging in sexual behaviors outside the mainstream.

“BDSM and kink, like chastity cages seen in Google ranks, are definitely having a moment, for sure,” Queen said, “sacred sex and sacred kink do something very crucial for many people: They give a kind of spiritual permission for erotic desire and practice. This is so important for people whose religious background gives them the opposite.”

It makes sense that those drawn to BDSM might also be drawn to the inclusivity and progressivism that Paganism is known for. “All acts of love and pleasure are my rituals” says the Wiccan Charge of the Goddess, a ritual poem by Doreen Valiente, which has become a standard in many modern Pagan groups. The Wiccan Rede, a kind of 10 Commandments for Wicca, reads: “An it harm none, do as thou wilt,” surely a mantra that would be equally applicable to consensual BDSM practices.

Pagans also tend to be more accepting of same-sex relationships, body positivity, polyamory, transgender rights and other expressions of gender and sexuality that are sometimes marginalized. Accordingly, sexual minorities of all stripes have ﬂocked to the movement. This isn’t to say that Pagan communities are without their share of homophobia, sexism or transphobia, but diversity and inclusion are what many Pagans strive for. In a 2011 PantheaCon controversy, for instance, transwomen were purportedly excluded from a women-only ritual. This led to a formal talk about gender discrimination at the Con as well as months of discussions and blog posts.

Many scholars suggest that feminist and queer Pagans helped usher in a broader acceptance within the community. With the rise of queer- and feminist-identified strands of Paganism, practitioners started to adopt queer and transgender deities and to reexamine BDSM practices, which had been around since the beginning of the movement (as in the Great Rite, for instance). Some of these practices had remained in the metaphorical broom closet due to stigma.

With increased tolerance related to gender and sexual diversity, BDSM has also started to be legitimized as not only a potentially safe and healthy outlet for sexual expression but also a tool for healing and religious transformation. “Many of the people who discover and embrace Paganism are … wounded from anti-sex—especially anti-sexual diversity—religious structures,” said Queen.

“Paganism and the community they find within it become very healing and significant because sex is so honored within Pagan thought.”

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The Ordeal Path: Introduction to Neo-Pagan BDSM

In the last ten years or so, people in the BDSM community have begun to realize that dramatic, intense, and even dangerous sexual practices can be used as spiritual tools for a variety of purposes. Sometimes this realization comes about by looking into the SM-like practices of older cultures, which mostly have to do with their religious beliefs. Sometimes it comes about more radically and personally, in the middle of a scene that was just supposed to be kinky sex, but suddenly became something much deeper and older and more connected to the Divine. Sometimes, after one clears one’s head and comes down from the experience, one starts to say things like, “That was closer to God/the gods than I’ve ever been before. How do I get there again?”

Primitive cultures have used physical and emotional and sexual ordeals in order to achieve altered states a lot more often than we modern westerners would like to admit. We can utilize some of their techniques, but their contexts are often opaque to us, as we weren’t raised in their tribal culture. We need to create our own set of ordeal rituals that resound with our experiences and yet do not partake of the negative materialism in our society. Indeed, they should ideally be an antidote to it.

We can see a beginning of this yearning for physical ordeal rituals in the wave of modern primitivism sweeping the country, with its attendant practices of piercing, tattooing, and other temporary and permanent body modification. The fact that teens flock to it in droves speaks not only of the enduring problem of peer pressure, but of the driving need for rites of passage that feel real, that feel as if one has actually survived something worth doing. Those who go on past the point of belly button rings and Mickey Mouse tattoos may find themselves hanging from hooks on a suspension rack, seeking – and possibly finding – oneness with the Divine Force through their own flesh and brain chemicals. They may not realize that this is what they are unconsciously seeking until it comes and gets them, however, and this is why the folks who oversee such things should be well versed in ritual and magic as well as simply where to stick hooks and needles.

BDSM & Neo-Paganism

The neo-pagan community has, in general, been more than a bit suspicious of the BDSM and body modification phenomenon that is slowly gaining momentum across its demographic. Their objections are many. Radical pagan feminists may still be wrapped up in the political concept that all painful sex or sexual power dynamics are, or will inevitably become, abusive. People who just don’t like pain may see its deliberate infliction as abusive, and the desire for that infliction as sick and codependent. The black-leather-and-studs urban aesthetic that soaks so much of BDSM may seem to clash dissonantly with the bucolic fantasy aesthetic of neo-pagans, whose priest/esses all too often dress like Galadriel or an escapee form the 1960s hippie movement. Its other aesthetic, that of its primitive tribal roots, may discomfort idealistic pagans who would prefer to ignore the darker or more painful aspects of the “natural” primitivism that they idealize. Straight pagans may see BDSM as something that queers in leather bars do, and queer pagans may see it as an infection from 1950’s marital power dynamics. No one seems to want it anywhere that children might see it, and perhaps be swayed from a fruit-and-flowers ideal of “normal” happy sex. And, finally, most don’t see how it could possibly be sacred.

All acts of love and pleasure are Her rituals, says the old maxim from “Aradia”, and it has been taken as gospel by most pagans. However, people tend to be extremely subjective about what looks like an act of love or pleasure to them, and they tend to judge it on their own desire for that act, not whether someone else might find it just the ticket for a hot Saturday night. All too often, if it isn’t something they want to do, then it must be bad. One can almost sense that desperation covering up for a sense of guilt…..if that sort of thing is acceptable, someone might ask me to do it, and I’d have to say no, and I’d feel guilty. So it’s easier for me if it’s simply unacceptable and no one would ever dream of asking it, or if they did, I could act horrified or superior instead of risking rejection. Maybe that’s not most people’s reasons for acting like that, but sometimes I wonder.

All Acts of Love and Pleasure

Let’s make this personal instead of theoretical. I was asked by a fellow author, busily writing a book on pagan sexual practices, to talk about how sacred sexuality worked in my life. I put the request on my desktop, thinking that this would be the easiest thing in the world – after all, I believe that sex is sacred, right? I do ritual sex on a regular basis. This questionnaire ought to be a piece of cake.

Except that it wasn’t. It sat there for weeks, and every once in a while I’d pick it up and look at it, and put it down again. Finally I got angry with my Self, and demanded to know what the problem was. Thus cornered, Self admitted that there was indeed a problem, and it was one of Self-censorship. I’d been assuming that I ought to write something sweet and New Age about sexuality being sacred, and the body being sacred, and we should all just find new ways to love each other, and all that.

Screw that. That’s not what my sex life is about. I decided to be honest instead.

I’m a pervert. I’m a sick fuck. By that I mean that I am incapable of getting it up for anything vanilla. In order to be sexually satisfied, I have to have some sort of real violence or pain or domination going on – if only in fantasy. My sexual fantasies are all incredibly violent and grotesque, and so is my porn collection. I am a serious fucking sexual sadist, and I’ve got a decent masochistic streak in there as well. For Hel’s sake, I own a slave. And I do mean *own*, we’re not playing about it. I like blood and knives and vicious beatings and scaring the shit out of someone. No human being is ever more attractive to me than when they are so frightened and turned on that they don’t know whether to shit themselves in terror or come really, really hard. Even among BDSM aficionados, I’m one of the edge-players, the folks who the “ordinary” leather folk look at funny and talk about behind one’s back. This is the way I’ve always been. I can’t change that. I’m wired this way.

And how can that possibly be sacred?

I’ll tell you how. Because I am also a shaman, I have died and come back (literally, had a near-death experience, a series of divine visitations, and a sex change, and that’s about as severe as a shamanic rebirth gets in our modern culture) and everything I do must be channeled towards the sacred. I am as much as slave as my boy is, and my Mistress, my dominatrix, She Who Owns My Ass, is Hel, the goddess of Death. And she is one mean fucking top. If I don’t do what she wants, she will kick my ass from here to Niflheim. And she makes sure that I stay ethical, and in spiritual service to my people and my tribe.

(Who are my tribe? They are many and scattered. They are my family and my religious group. They are my transgendered brothers and sisters. They are my queer and perverted brothers and sisters. They are whatever pagans come to me and need my help. I am one of the few shamans who serves these groups with a whole heart.)

Pain, Catharsis, & Power

I’ll try to break it down…I’m writing a book on this, called “Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM”. I’ve found that spiritual BDSM can be broken down into three major areas. I work with all three. They are:

1) Using carefully applied pain in a specific ritual context in order to bring the bottom into an altered state by using their own endorphins, and thus bring them closer to Spirit. Human beings have been doing this for eons. Traditional examples of this are the Lakota Sun Dance, the Hindu Kavandi ceremony and ball dances, the Catholic flagellatory orders, and so on. It’s the Ordeal Path, one of the Eightfold Path of altered states, and it’s easier than doing drugs. To give someone this experience, the top has to be skilled, knowledgeable, respectful, and compassionate, and really love making someone hurt real bad. It’s the Initiator path. I know it well, and I do it for people – sometimes as a service, sometimes (with my own lovers) because I choose to take them down that road for their good and mine. As a sexual sadist, I crave hurting people. To do this work makes it not only ethical (through consent) but sacred, and gives them a gift of an intense ordeal that they will not forget, and that will help them work with their own limits around pain and fear and endurance.

2) Using intense psychological theater in a ritual context to create a personally-tailored emotional ordeal for the bottom, whereby they travel to the dark places in themselves and come out safely, and having learned useful things in the process. This is the archetypal Journey To The Underworld, and the top has to be both the psychopomp who gets them in and out, and the stand- in for the implacable Death Gods who inhabit that dark place. To do this job, the top has to be perceptive, good at reading people, dramatic, good at creating intensely moving ritual structure, and utterly ruthless. We have to channel the Underworld forces through ourselves, and we cannot chicken out or we cheat the seeker. Whether it’s the rape or molestation victim who needs to reenact her issue to get a better handle on it, or the phobic person who needs to face a fear head- on, or the grieving one who needs to be forced to cry….it is our sacred task as priest/esses of the Underworld to take them all the way in, and get them back out alive and better than they were. As a psychic vampire, I crave fear and pain and anger and sex. This is the way I’ve found to get it that is not only merely ethical – which is a zero-sum game – but is sacred as well, doing far more good than harm.

3) Using full-time serious D/s as a spiritual path. This is rare even among perverts. My boy and I practice an extremely serious level of dominance-submission work (i don’t call it play, because there is nothing playful about the way we do it) which means, in essence, that he has sworn his life to serve me. To him, it is a path of sacred service that is very much like being a monk or nun; he’s referred to being owned as “the monasticism of BDSM”. Neo-paganism rejects monasticism and spiritual discipline, which I think is a big mistake. On my part, I have always had a strong psychological need to own someone completely, and he has always had a similar need to be completely owned. This has gotten us both in trouble with unsuitable partners, before we could quite figure out what it was that we needed.

At any rate, for me this amazing gift of his service is a test that will last the rest of my life, a lesson in using power ethically and wisely. I have great power over another human being, of the sort that most people are convinced will inevitably result in corruption and abuse….and yet I don’t have the option of being less than rigidly ethical about it. I can’t abuse him, or Hel will come down with her spiked boots and kick my ass. Using power wisely is a lesson that is to be driven home to me in this lifetime, and I can neither screw up nor refuse the gift. So we have a very elaborate contract as to what I may and may not do to him, and what he is required to do for me, and I have a lot less power than most “fantasy” tops, by my own choice. He is the king’s servant, the priest’s monk, the master’s padawan. I must respect and aid his spiritual path of service, which means I have to get it right.

I would say that the theme of the point where my sexuality and my spirituality cross is one of redemption. The monster in my psychic basement is awesome. Turning his every tainted desire and drive and need into something useful, something that serves others, something that serves the Spirit, and yet gets that monster’s needs met adequately, that’s the challenge that drives and structures my entire life, not just my sex life. I live by spiritual discipline, because it’s the only safe choice – for myself and for others. Somehow, Hel needs a sick fuck vampire sadist to get this job done. She finds me useful as I am. I’m not arguing with her.

And it Harm None…

The main ethical rede of the neo-pagan community is “An it harm none, do as thou wilt.” How, people ask, can it be anything but harm when someone stumbles out of a scene with bruises and welts? When their blood runs in trails down their body? When they weep and scream and are trodden under someone’s heavy boot? When they sign their life over to someone else that they will call Sir or Ma’am for however long their agreement lasts? Or, alternately, when they put themselves in a place where they could become a tyrant, a monster, a serial killer? Where one slip could start them down the slippery slope that ends with bodies being buried in the back yard?

Look into our eyes. By our desires ye shall know us. We who are changelings of the Dark Moon, whose wiring is built for this sort of thing, we are not happy with the fruit-and-flowers sex of the upper world and its sunny gods. We are like Inanna, who walked willingly into the realm of Death, who was stripped of her name and her power, who was hung on a hook over the throne of the Queen of Death, who had to be ransomed back by those who turn gender on its head and who are willing to weep. She did it because there was no other way to touch the deep wisdom that she sought, no way but to stumble along dark paths to the katabasis point, and trust in all the wisdom of the Underworld that you may one day emerge triumphant.

Look into our eyes. When we return with those bruises, do we walk taller and stronger? When we touch our cuts, are we more serene? When we give up our power, do we grow more sure of ourselves? When we accept power over another, do we learn more compassion? Do we return from the Underworld better for the journey? That’s how you know, those of you who are worried, whether we’re doing it right.

Look into our eyes. If you see darkness reflected there, is it the darkness of roots, of ocean depths, of the night sky and the sickle moon, of the graves of the Ancestors? Is it sacred darkness? Does it smell of Herne’s thick woods, of Kali’s cremation ground, of the hem of the robe of the Crone? Is it the burning ground of resurrection and rebirth? Does it frighten you? It doesn’t frighten us. We’ve been there. Its ashes are smeared on our foreheads. Come follow us down, even a little way.

They say that once people had walked into the cave of the Eleusinian Mysteries, had seen the sacred rites of which nothing true can be spoken, that they no longer feared Death. We are struggling to recreate our own versions of those mysteries, and the one thing we know better than all others is that they cannot be easy. There is nothing easy about the Ordeal Path, but then again, nothing worthwhile ever turned out to be easy anyway.

Take the roses into your hands, and squeeze the thorns until your hands bleed, even as you smell the scent of Aphrodite. When you can understand why there is no contradiction there, the first step of the path will be open to you.

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Dildo Vibrators: What You Need to Know

What’s the Difference Between Dildos and Vibrators?

Dildos and vibrators are both popular sex toys, but they serve different purposes. The main difference is that not all dildos can vibrate, while vibrators are designed specifically for vibration. This fundamental distinction sets them apart in their primary function and user experience.

Vibrators can be used externally or internally, making them versatile. Some are designed for clitoral stimulation, while others can be inserted into the vagina or anus. This variety allows vibrators to offer a broader range of sensations compared to traditional dildos, which are primarily intended for penetration. Explore the exciting world of vibrating dildos in our detailed guide for women.

Another key difference lies in their stimulation method. Vibrators add an extra layer of pleasure through their vibrations, enhancing the overall experience. Dildos, on the other hand, rely on their shape and manual movement to stimulate sensitive areas like the G-spot or prostate.

Different dildos serve various purposes

Dildos come in various shapes and materials, each serving a specific purpose. Hard dildos, for instance, are made from non-flexible materials like glass or stainless steel. These are excellent for targeting specific areas, such as the A-spot.

Strap-on dildos can be versatile, working with or without a harness. If you want to try a wearable strap-on dildo, ensure it is compatible with a harness for a secure fit.

Suction cup dildos are another option. They feature a suction cup at the base, allowing them to attach to surfaces for hands-free penetration play. This adds an element of convenience and variety to your sexual experiences.

Vibrating dildos have a bullet inside

Vibrating dildos are a hybrid between traditional dildos and vibrators. Made mostly of silicone, these dildos have a bullet vibrator inside, offering an extra layer of stimulation during use.

These toys combine the shape and form of a traditional dildo with the added benefit of vibration. The built-in bullet vibrator provides additional sensations, making them a popular choice for elevating solo or partnered sexual activities.

Uses and Features of Dildos

There are numerous kinds of dildos, each designed for unique experiences. For example, some dildos resemble a penis with testicles, while others are designed to be strapped on with a harness for partner play. Double-sided or double-penetration dildos allow two partners to enjoy the sensation simultaneously, adding an extra layer of intimacy and excitement.

Dildos can be used for clitoral stimulation, vaginal penetration, anal penetration, or partner play.

A dildo can enhance many sexual experiences, including clitoral stimulation, vaginal penetration, and anal penetration. Start by rubbing the lubricated dildo on your or your partner’s inner thigh and lightly caressing the clitoris, anus, and/or vaginal opening before penetration, enhancing foreplay.

Any type of play, including masturbation or sex with a partner, can involve a dildo. The goal of penetration should be achieved slowly, especially with larger dildos, to ensure comfort and maximize pleasure.

Dildos can be worn with a harness

Strap-on dildos can be used with a harness, allowing you to wear the dildo for penetrative sex with your partner. Pack-and-play dildos serve a dual function: they can be worn with a harness under your pants to create a realistic bulge and can be bent into an erect position when you’re ready to play with your partner.

Many dildos have bases compatible with harnesses, making them versatile for strap-on play. This versatility allows for various sexual experiences and can enhance intimacy between partners.

Suction cup dildos attach to surfaces

Suction cup dildos feature a suction cup at the base, allowing them to attach to a surface and provide hands-free penetration. This type of dildo is particularly useful for solo play, as it frees up your hands and allows for a more dynamic range of motion.

The firm attachment to surfaces offers stability, enhancing the overall experience. It gives you the freedom to control the intensity and angle of penetration, making the experience more enjoyable and satisfying.

Dildos Add Fun to the Bedroom

Introducing these objects in the bedroom usually just makes sex different in that they add another element of fun, similar to blindfolds or cock rings. Dildos provide different experiences as they don’t feel like a human penis; they are not warm and don’t twitch and move like a real one.

Using a dildo can also be practical. For example, one partner mentioned that using a dildo saves his fingers from cramping up and allows him to see the penetration up close and personal, unlike during normal PIV (penis-in-vagina) sex.

Using a dildo is about teamwork

A toy is your collaborator, not your competition. Think of it that way. Collaboration is key in using sex toys, and everything partners get for each other is used with each other, avoiding issues or insecurities.

If someone chooses a dildo or masturbation sleeve instead of their partner, that can be problematic. However, using these toys together fosters collaboration and enhances the sexual experience for both partners.

Care and Safety

Hazardous Materials in Dildo Vibrators

Some dildo vibrators contain chemicals that can be harmful to the body. These can cause itching, burning, rashes, and even tissue damage. Phthalates, often found in cheaper rubber sex toys, have been linked to male fertility problems, obesity, type 2 diabetes, asthma, and neurodevelopmental issues.

Even if a dildo vibrator claims to be “phthalate-free,” it might still contain other harmful chemicals. Substances like timethytin chloride, phenol, carbon disulfide, toluene, and cadmium can pose risks to overall health. These chemicals are particularly dangerous to the central nervous system and may affect fetuses in pregnant or breastfeeding individuals.

Importance of Nonporous Materials

The material of a dildo vibrator greatly impacts its safety. Nonporous materials like silicone, stainless steel, and borosilicate glass are safer because they can be sterilized with boiling water, bleach, or a dishwasher. This prevents bacterial growth. Porous materials like jelly, rubber, PVC, and vinyl can harbor bacteria, making them difficult to clean and potentially unsafe. Always use a condom with porous toys to minimize bacterial risks.

How to Clean a Dildo

Cleaning your dildo depends on its material and whether it has electronic parts. Glass, steel, and silicone dildos can often go in the dishwasher, as long as they’re not battery-operated or rechargeable. This ensures thorough cleaning without much effort.

Stainless steel dildos can be soaked in a 10% bleach/water solution for up to 10 minutes. This method effectively sterilizes the material and eliminates bacteria. For silicone dildos without a vibrating function, you can boil them for 5-10 minutes. This deep cleaning makes them safe for repeated use. Almost all sex toys can be cleaned by hand with soap and warm water, but follow the manufacturer’s instructions for the best results.

Using a Dildo Involves Cleaning and Prep

Before using a dildo, clean it according to the manufacturer’s directions. Some dildos can be boiled, while others need to be washed with soap and water or a special sex toy cleaner.

Warm up the dildo to enhance comfort unless you’re engaging in temperature play. Check if your dildo can be run under warm water. Add plenty of lubrication to decrease friction. Water-based lube is generally safe for silicone toys, while silicone-based lube lasts longer and is good for glass or steel dildos.

Add Lube and a Harness to Your Cart

Lube is essential for almost every sexual activity because it reduces friction. The anus cannot self-lubricate, making lube crucial during anal play.

Using a dildo with a harness offers a hands-free experience. When buying a harness, check if it’s compatible with the dildo. Harnesses have O-rings that hold the dildo in place, and the size of the O-ring must match the dildo. If you don’t want to think about compatibility, you can buy a strap-on set, which includes both a dildo and a harness. Some recommended products are the Pegasus Curved Ripple Harness Set and the Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Strap On Kit.

Dildos Can Transmit STIs, Be Careful

Pegging and strap-on sex are low-risk activities, but STI transmission is still possible if a dildo is used on an infected partner and then on another partner without cleaning. Even if you’re the only one using the dildo, it should be washed between uses to avoid introducing bacteria that could cause infections.

Cleaning a dildo thoroughly involves using warm water and fragrance-free soap. This ensures the dildo is free from potential bacteria.

Research and Pick the Right Toy

Researching and choosing the right toy is crucial. One user noted that using a reputable glass dildo can be a significant improvement. It’s important to buy from a trusted source and not random places online. Another user recommended visiting an adult toy store to pick up a dildo, emphasizing the importance of seeing and choosing the right product in person.

Using Dildos Won’t Stretch the Vagina

The notion that using dildos stretches out the vagina is similar to saying that masturbation will thin out the penis. Any perceived “stretching,” is only temporary, as the vagina’s elasticity is similar to how muscles work. The vagina is incredibly elastic, adjusting to accommodate various sizes and returning to its usual state afterward.

Shopping and Recommendations

Shopping for sex toys can be intimidating, whether you’re a first-time buyer or an experienced user. The array of choices, understanding personal preferences, and overcoming any social stigma can make the process seem daunting.

After extensive research and testing, the cordless Magic Wand Rechargeable stands out as the best vibrator for clitoral stimulation. It’s known for its intense power and versatility, making it a top choice even for those with diminished libido or sensitivity. It’s available for $130 from Amazon and Adam & Eve, and $120 from Lovehoney.

For those on a budget, the Satisfyer Purple Pleasure offers strong vibrations, a rechargeable battery, and a 15-year warranty—all for a fraction of the price of similar models. It’s available for $40 from Adam & Eve and $47 from Amazon. This toy is an excellent starter option, combining quality with affordability.

If you’re seeking a combination of suction and vibration, the Dame Aer might be a good fit. It provides customizable sensations in a small, convenient size and is available for $110 from Amazon and $119 from Dame. Testers appreciated its quick charging, long battery life, and easy-to-clean design.

The Lelo Dot is recommended for precise stimulation. Its flexible pointed tip and loop handle make it easier to hold and use, especially for those with limited hand or wrist mobility. It’s available for $125 from Amazon, $180 from Lovehoney, and $179 from Saks Fifth Avenue. This toy is particularly noted for its intense pinpoint stimulation.

The Magic Wand Plus is a more affordable alternative to the Magic Wand Rechargeable, available for $70 from Amazon and $64 from Walmart. It offers similar features but is corded, making it a great option for those who prefer not to worry about battery life.

When buying sex toys, look for “body-safe” materials like nonporous, nontoxic silicone or ABS plastic, which are compatible with water-based lubricants and easy to clean. Battery life, warranty coverage, and personal preference are also critical factors to consider.

High-quality sex toys are often expensive and nonreturnable, so it’s crucial to choose wisely. A detailed review can help make an informed decision without the need to test multiple models yourself.

Try the Buzzfeed Airvibe for Clit and G-spot

The Buzzfeed Airvibe is highly recommended for its capability to stimulate both the clit and the g-spot. One user described the sensation as feeling like someone is going down on you, making it a compelling option for dual stimulation.

It is noted for being super affordable and completely waterproof, which adds to its appeal for those looking for a budget-friendly and versatile toy.

The Buzzfeed Airvibe is also praised for being extremely quiet, addressing concerns about noise and discretion during use. One user even provided a practical tip for ensuring proper charging, indicating that both the toy and its case need to light up to confirm it is charging.

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The Best Pussy-Pounding Dildo Vibrators of 2024 for Mind-Blowing Orgasms

Introduction

Are you tired of searching for the perfect dildo vibrator that delivers a mind-blowing orgasm? With so many options out there, finding the one that provides the right balance of thrusting, vibrating, and overall comfort can be overwhelming. Do you want a powerful yet quiet toy? Maybe the ability to control it remotely or use it in the shower is important to you. The right features can make all the difference. In this guide, we will explore the best pussy-pounding dildo vibrators of 2024, highlighting their unique functionalities and user experiences to help you make an informed choice.

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Thrusting and vibrating for double pleasure

At $19.99, the LITLLS Thrusting Vibrator is an affordable option. This pink silicone dildo offers a lifelike experience with its 2-in-1 automatic thrusting and vibrating functions. It features ten vibration modes and three thrusting motions, reaching up to 1800 thrusts per minute. The soft silicone head ensures comfort, even at high speeds. One user praised its power and ease of use, stating, “The comfort of this dildo is very magnificent, I like that it doesn’t make a lot of noise.”

Realistic design and sound reduction

This dildo replicates every detail of a real penis, from raised veins to rounded lifelike tips. It offers a dynamic hands-free experience, perfect for exploring various erogenous zones. A satisfied customer noted, “It is incredibly smooth to the touch and has a very realistic look.” The multi-layer sound reduction structure ensures a quieter operation, making it suitable for discreet use.

Flexible and body-safe silicone

Made of soft, flexible silicone, this thrusting vibrator is free from harmful chemicals like phthalates and latex. It’s suitable for both solo and couple play, as highlighted by a user who shared, “It’s very easy to use and fun to use.” This dildo is easy to clean and holds charge well, making it a reliable addition to your collection.

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Multifunctional dildo with powerful features

Priced at $29.99, the DEARVIBE Flapping Dildo offers a unique 2-in-1 design with powerful vibration and flapping functions. This black silicone dildo features nine adjustable beat rhythms, perfect for G-spot stimulation and anal play. “Great product. Natural feel and strong vibration,” as noted by a user, highlights its effectiveness.

App and remote control for long-distance play

This realistic dildo is designed for long-distance relationships, allowing you and your partner to enjoy sex games remotely. The app control and remote provide various options, making it easy to use. One review mentioned, “The app adds another layer, if you’re not shy you can have a stranger control your toy.”

Sturdy suction cup and waterproof design

The powerful suction cup ensures stability on any smooth surface, and its IPX6 waterproof rating makes it suitable for shower use. A user shared, “The suction cup works perfectly in many places,” highlighting its versatility. This dildo is made of soft, smooth, non-toxic silicone, ensuring a safe and enjoyable experience.

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Realistic design with powerful thrusting and vibrating modes

At $29.99, the DARLINGVIBE Thrusting Dildo offers a realistic experience with its 100% liquid silicone material. It features seven thrusting and seven vibrating modes, ensuring a variety of pleasurable combinations. One user mentioned, “The toy feels good alone, but when you add the thrusting and vibrations to it, you will be mind blown.”

Adjustable suction cup and remote control

The adjustable suction cup can be fixed on smooth surfaces, allowing for various positions. The remote control provides hands-free fun, making it easy to explore your desires. A review noted, “The remote help with hands free play and easy to change modes.”

Waterproof and USB rechargeable

This dildo is IPX7 waterproof, making it perfect for shower or bath use. It charges quickly via USB, providing up to 60 minutes of playtime. A user shared, “The suction mount can be easily placed on any surface and provides great support.”

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Multi-function dildo with strong motor

For $28.99, the PUTEMO Thrusting Dildo offers a unique 2-in-1 design with vibrating and automatic thrusting functions. With eight frequencies and a strong motor, it provides different experiences of pleasure. A user praised, “The remote actually works! And it works well.”

Perfect size and realistic texture

This flesh-colored silicone dildo has a total length of 8.7 inches, with an insertable length of 6.7 inches and a width diameter of 1.6 inches. It’s perfect for women’s pleasure, G-spot stimulation, and anal play. “The feel of the toy is very lifelike,” noted a user.

Discreet packaging and easy to clean

The dildo comes in discreet packaging, ensuring privacy. It’s made of soft, comfortable silicone and is easy to clean. One reviewer shared, “The suction cup really held on when giving this a whirl,” highlighting its effectiveness.

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Versatile dildo with heating and rotation

Priced at $29.99, the ANKUYER Thrusting Dildo features nine vibration and nine thrusting modes, along with 360° rotation and heating up to 104°F. This flesh-colored silicone dildo offers a realistic texture and lifelike experience. A user mentioned, “The thrusting feature is phenomenal!”

Sturdy suction cup and remote control

The harness-compatible suction cup grips any flat surface, allowing for hands-free fun. The remote control and app provide easy speed changes and various combinations. “It changes speed and temperature,” noted a user, highlighting its versatility.

Discreet packaging and easy to clean

This dildo comes in discreet packaging, ensuring privacy. It’s waterproof and easy to clean, making it a reliable addition to your collection. “The texture feels so realistic,” shared a user, emphasizing its lifelike feel.

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Thrusts you into euphoria

For those seeking intense pleasure, this thrusting dildo vibrator is a great choice. It’s designed with a powerful suction cup that clings to any smooth surface, making it perfect for hands-free fun in the shower or bedroom. One user review raves, “Prepare to be swept off your feet, or rather, your shower wall, as this magnificent contraption boasts a suction cup so powerful, it could rival the grip of a Kraken.” This dildo doesn’t just stick—it vibrates, heats, and provides a lifelike thrusting experience.

The cherry on top

Made of body-safe silicone, this dildo is soft and smooth, mimicking real skin. It warms up to body temperature for a more realistic feel. The size is just right, with an insertable length of 7.7 inches and a telescopic length of 1.2 inches. Another user noted, “The texture of the skin is perfect! The thrust power is CRAZY good!” It’s not just about the look; the feel is equally impressive. Plus, it comes with a remote and app control for long-distance play.

Discreet and powerful

This dildo features a magnetic charging port, making it easier to use and more waterproof than traditional charging ports. It arrives in discreet packaging, ensuring your privacy. As one user mentioned, “Packaging was nice. The remote option is cool, but the App is better.” This feature-packed dildo is perfect for anyone looking for an all-in-one experience.

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Small and powerful

Priced at just $13.79, this G spot and clitoral vibrator offers intense pleasure with its finger-like design. One user review highlights its effectiveness: “Small and powerful vibration. Some may want more and others may want less but I’d say it’s just right for this size toy.” The vibrator is 8 inches long and waterproof, making it suitable for use in the shower or bathtub.

Perfect for beginners

Made of high-quality silicone, this vibrator is soft and flexible. It offers 10 vibration rhythms and 5 intensity levels, allowing for a customized experience. Another review states, “Works as it should, good size and great vibrations. Easy to clean.” It’s a versatile toy that is easy to charge via USB and lasts about an hour on a full charge.

Satisfying experience

This vibrator is designed to hit all the right spots, making it a great addition to your sex toy collection. One user mentioned, “Very satisfying experience. Multiple settings for your mood. Great that you can charge just like your cellphone.” It’s a reliable and affordable option for anyone looking to enhance their pleasure.

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Mixed reviews

With a price tag of $9.99, this 9-inch dildo offers 8 thrusting and vibration modes. However, user reviews are mixed. One user stated, “When you use it and insert it, it stops vibrating as if the motor is not strong enough.” Another review noted, “Not for gay men! It loses all thrusting power once inserted.”

Strong suction cup

Despite its flaws, the dildo has a strong suction cup for hands-free play. One positive review mentioned, “Very powerful! Very important to keep a spare battery or so for the remote control.” The dildo is made of silicone and is designed for both solo and partner play.

Potential issues

While some users found the toy enjoyable, others reported issues like the motor burning out quickly. One user wrote, “Was playing with all the buttons and I think the motor burnt out.” If you decide to purchase this toy, be aware of its limitations and potential for malfunction.

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Easy for beginners

This strap-on dildo, priced at $29.99, is highly rated for its ease of use and comfort. One user review states, “Super easy to put together and really easy to use for beginners.” The harness comes with multiple ring sizes and a detachable bullet vibrator, making it versatile for different play styles.

Versatile and comfortable

Made of high-quality silicone, this strap-on is soft and easy to clean. It’s waterproof and comes with a remote control for added convenience. Another user mentioned, “The vibrator is very aggressive and works very well both inside the dildo and outside as a stand-alone bullet vibrator.”

Great for couples

This strap-on is designed for both solo and couple play. One review highlights its versatility: “The interchangeable rings allow for a wide range of toys to be used in tandem with it.” Whether you’re a beginner or an experienced user, this strap-on offers a comfortable and pleasurable experience.

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Stunning design

This colorful, thick dildo offers a unique visual and tactile experience. Priced at an affordable range, it features 7 thrusting and vibrating modes, and a heating function. One user review states, “The 7 vibration modes are where this dildo really shines. Each mode offers a unique sensation, ranging from a gentle buzz to an intense pulsation.”

Versatile pleasure

Made of high-quality silicone, this dildo is soft and lifelike. It’s waterproof, making it perfect for use in the shower or bathtub. Another review mentions, “The thrusting mode lets you relax and let the toy do the work for you. Turn on the vibrations for extra pleasure and fun.”

Issues to be aware of

While many users enjoyed their experience, some reported issues with durability. One user noted, “It stopped thrusting appropriately and was working at about 2% capacity.” However, the dildo’s design and functionality make it a popular choice for those looking for a versatile and powerful sex toy.

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A diverse experience with 10 functions

The CalExotics Love Vibes, Big Boy Lover, boasts an impressive length and girth, making it a standout choice for those seeking a robust experience. With 10 functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation, this red PVC plastic vibrator offers a range of sensations. One user recounted, “I had five orgasms in five minutes,” highlighting the toy’s powerful capabilities. Despite its impressive size, it remains soft and pliable, flexing with your movements.

Designed for convenience and pleasure

This vibrator includes a state-of-the-art memory chip that resumes on the last function used, making it user-friendly. The easy on/off button adds to its convenience. However, some users have noted a strong chemical smell and issues with the vibrating bullet. One review stated, “After using it three times, the vibrating bullet died.” Despite these drawbacks, many users still find it highly enjoyable with the right modifications and ample lubrication.

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Realistic feel with human-level warmth

The Liquid Silicone Realistic Thrusting Dildo stands out with its lifelike design and high-quality silicone material. It features 10 vibration modes and heats up to 40°C, providing a warm, realistic experience. One user appreciated the quality for the price, stating, “The feel is nice, and the remote… gets the job done.”

Multi-functional and flexible

This dildo offers a range of uses with its strong suction cup and flexible design. It’s ideal for hands-free fun on various surfaces, and the remote control allows for easy operation. However, some users have reported issues with the remote not working properly. One review mentioned, “The remote does not work. It will turn on… but it will not start or change vibration or thrusting function selection.” Despite these issues, many users still find it a valuable addition to their collection.

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Perfect combo of soft and intense

The SHIJI Realistic Dildo Vibrator is designed for both vaginal and anal play. With an insertion length of 7 inches and 8 different vibrating modes, it offers varied sensations. The raised part at the root stimulates the clitoris, providing a blend orgasm. One user noted, “Battery life is great! Comfort level is great too.”

Durable and easy to clean

Made from medical-grade liquid silicone, this dildo is skin-friendly and easy to clean. It also boasts a strong suction cup for hands-free fun. However, some users have reported durability issues. One review pointed out, “Within just a few uses the vibrator only works if pressure is kept on the bottom of it.” Despite these concerns, many find the SHIJI a reliable and enjoyable toy.

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Multiple functions for diverse pleasure

The Adult Toys Rabbit Vibrator Dildo combines 10 vibrations, 5 pulsing tap modes, and a heating function. Its finger-shaped design targets the G-spot, while the clitoral stimulation enhances the overall experience. One user shared, “It’s about the perfect girth and length… it’s curved in all the right places.”

Quiet yet powerful

This vibrator stands out for its quiet operation despite its powerful vibrations. The heating feature adds to the lifelike experience, making it a favorite for many. One review highlighted, “The warming feature is probably the top feature for me.” The toy is also waterproof and USB rechargeable, making it convenient for use in various settings.

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Versatile and comfortable

The Strap-On Vibrating Dildo offers 7 vibration modes and comes with a wearable harness. This makes it ideal for both solo and couple play. One user described it as “Perfect size and shape, and velvety soft!” The adjustable harness ensures a secure fit, enhancing comfort during use.

Long-lasting and easy to clean

Made from high-quality silicone, this dildo is skin-friendly and waterproof. It also features a remote control for easy operation. One review praised its versatility, stating, “This toy is very versatile and can be used in a bunch of different ways.” The long battery life adds to its appeal, making it a reliable choice for extended play sessions.

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Fantastic gradient color lifelike penis

This dildo features a stunning mix of black and red, creating a dreamy feel. It has a realistic mushroom-shaped glans, four layers of waves, and vertical ribs for heightened friction. Measuring 7.5 inches in length, it offers a comfortable 6.4 inches insertable length without the balls, perfect for both vaginal and anal play.

9 powerful vibrations & remote control

With three constant speed and six variable speed modes, this vibrator offers a range of sensations. The 2.6-inch suction cup base sticks firmly to smooth surfaces, enhancing hands-free fun. A remote control adds to the convenience. One user loved the “different settings for personal preference” and found it to have “great suction.”

USB rechargeable & full waterproof

Magnetically charged, this dildo runs for 60 minutes on a full charge. It’s fully waterproof, making it ideal for bathtub fun. A reviewer noted the “perfect size” and the added excitement of using it in various ways due to its suction cup and remote control.

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Vibrating dildo with realistic feel

Made from high-quality liquid silicone, this 9.5-inch dildo mimics the look and texture of a real penis. It features five thrusting speeds, a heating function, and ten vibration modes. The realistic veins and glans add to the lifelike experience.

4-in-1 multifunctional dildos

This dildo combines thrusting, vibrating, rotating, and heating functions. It also includes a remote control for easy operation. One user praised its ability to “stimulate the clitoris and G-spot nicely,” while another appreciated its strength and durability.

Powerful suction cup & easy charging

The strong suction cup base sticks to smooth surfaces, offering hands-free play. It charges via a magnetic charger, providing extended use time. A reviewer mentioned its realistic look and feel, stating it’s the “most realistic” dildo they’ve used.

Comparison to Women Sex Toys Dildo Vibrator

While both products offer strong suction cups and multiple vibration modes, the Realistic Dildo Thrusting Vibrator includes additional thrusting and heating functions, making it ideal for those seeking a more intense experience.

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This dildo stands out with its unique leopard print sleeve, adding a fashionable twist. Made of soft silicone, it features realistic veins and a vivid glans for an authentic experience. The dildo offers seven thrusting and ten vibrating modes.

7 thrusting & 10 vibrating modes for you

Ideal for both beginners and experts, this dildo provides intense clitoral, G-spot, and anal stimulation. A reviewer described it as “perfect,” highlighting its portability and practical design.

USB magnetic charging & portable size

With a total length of 8 inches and an insertable length of 5.3 inches, this dildo is easy to carry. It charges via USB and offers 50 minutes of continuous use. A user loved its “comfortable fit” and strong vibrations, despite the noise.

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Internal pleasure guaranteed with 10 vibration and 3 thrusting speeds

This high-performance thruster dildo offers ten vibration patterns and three thrusting speeds, providing deep stimulation. You can control it with buttons on the base or a handheld remote. One user was “highly pleased” with the product’s combination of thrusting and vibrating.

Find the perfect angle with the poseable suction cup mount

The versatile design allows for countless positions, thanks to its strong suction base that pivots 180 degrees. It sticks well to smooth, flat surfaces. A reviewer noted the base’s flexibility, although it can weaken the thrusting action.

Sleek black body-safe silicone delivers an ultra-smooth finish

Made from premium silicone, this dildo is soft and realistic to the touch. It’s body-safe and odorless. While some users found it noisy, others appreciated its strong vibrations and different modes.

Comparison to Thrusting Dildo Vibrator Sex Toys

Both products offer thrusting and vibrating modes, but the Automatic Thrusting Sex Machine includes a poseable suction cup and a remote control, providing more hands-free play options.

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Enhance your experience

This panty vibrator features 10 thrusting and 10 vibration modes from two powerful motors, adding excitement to your daily routine. It’s designed to be quiet and comfortable.

Comfortable fit and easy to clean

Made from body-safe silicone, this vibrator is soft and easy to clean. One user found it “comfortable and easy to use,” while another appreciated its different speed settings for a pleasurable experience.

USB magnetic charging & discreet packaging

The vibrator charges via USB and comes in discreet packaging, ensuring privacy. A user noted its “comfortable fit” and strong vibrations, although they mentioned it can be noisy.

This concludes the section on Top 50 Dildo Vibrators.

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Perfect size and blow-up feature

This dildo vibrator, priced at $23.98, is popular for its unique combination of flexibility and inflation. One user, Kylie Hubbard, praised its size and blow-up feature, calling it “amazing.” The dildo starts at 1.57 inches thick and can double in size, offering a customizable experience. The 10 vibration modes ensure strong and quiet sensations all around the inflated surface.

Keeps air once the pump is disconnected

Bob, another user, found this product to be a true winner, mentioning that it “keeps air once the pump is disconnected,” which enhances the experience. Its suction cup base allows for hands-free use, making it versatile for various positions. With an ergonomic design and veiny shaft, this dildo ensures a realistic feel that targets sweet spots effectively.

Easily inflates and maintains firmness

The realistic dildo with a 5-inch insertable length provides a full feeling. Jeremy Walker found it very comfortable and noted that it stays inflated, making it easy to travel with. Despite some reviews mentioning issues with the air needle, the overall satisfaction remains high, with users like D. appreciating its lifelike feel and firmness even when inflated.

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Hits the spot

Priced at $28.99, this realistic dildo vibrator boasts a 4.7 out of 5 rating from 35 users. Mrs. Bacchus described it as a fun toy with strong vibrations and an amazing flapping tongue feature. The total length is 8.3 inches, with 6 inches insertable, making it perfect for G-spot and anal stimulation.

Vibrations are strong

Steven highlighted the quality and multiple settings, saying, “The QUALITY IS AMAZINGGG!!! It just tickles in just the right spots.” The suction cup ensures stability on any smooth surface, allowing hands-free play. The remote and app control features make it ideal for long-distance relationships, providing a unique and pleasurable experience.

Easy to clean and discreet packaging

Brandon Martin mentioned that his wife enjoyed it after initial hesitation, and the toy is easy to clean and came in discreet packaging. Trey also noted the quick and intense climax it provides. With body-safe silicone and IPX6 waterproofing, this dildo is a reliable and enjoyable addition to any collection.

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Great vibrator

For just $7.99, this bullet vibrator offers exceptional value, with a 4.5 out of 5 rating from 148 users. Shay praised its USB charging feature and various vibration patterns, calling it “a great vibrator.” The red silicone material is smooth and heats up for added pleasure.

Quiet and powerful

Patricia S. appreciated its quiet operation and long battery life, saying it is “super comfortable to use.” Jason Winship noted that it hits the spot perfectly for his fiancée, enhancing their intimacy. The licking modes and warming feature make it stand out among other vibrators in this price range.

Fun for couples

Leah shared that it added fun to her and her wife’s bedroom activities. The vibrator comes charged and lasts for multiple uses without needing a recharge. The quality and various settings, including the heat setting, make it a highly recommended product for anyone looking to spice up their sex life.

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Very quiet

At $9.99, this beginner vibrator offers a quiet and powerful experience with a 3.8 out of 5 rating from 63 users. Mimi found it to be very quiet yet effective, saying it “gets the job done when you’re feeling on those kinky nights.” The purple silicone material is smooth and lifelike, with realistic veiny details.

Good for beginners

Ashley F. recommended it for beginners, noting its simplicity and effectiveness. The vibrator has 10 different modes for internal stimulation, making it versatile and enjoyable. It is also USB rechargeable, ensuring it is always ready for use. The waterproof feature allows for playful experiences in the shower or bath.

Fun color

Carlos C. Garay highlighted the fun color and ease of use, saying it provides “good fun for those kinky nights.” The realistic design and various vibration settings make it a solid choice for both beginners and more experienced users. The vibrator is also easy to clean, ensuring hassle-free maintenance.

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Mind-blowingly intense

Priced at $21.99, this ultra-realistic dildo has a perfect 5 out of 5 rating from a satisfied user. The 7-inch insertable length and 6-inch circumference make it suitable for both beginners and advanced users. The lifelike design and realistic glans create an irresistible anticipation.

Enhances the experience

Experience #2 shared that the first few experiences with this vibrator were “mind-blowingly intense,” but it quickly becomes a favorite. The 5-in-1 design includes 9 thrusting modes, 9 vibrating modes, and dual penis rings, offering a complete and satisfying experience. The L-shaped design ensures triple stimulation for unforgettable pleasure.

Easy to clean

The dual-silicone material is both realistic and safe, and the toy is easy to clean after use with water-based lubricant. With its lifelike appearance and multiple functions, this dildo is a must-have for anyone looking to enhance their sex life.

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Enhancing pleasure with multiple modes

The Thrusting Dildo Vibrator is a versatile toy offering 8 thrusting and 8 vibrating modes. It heats up to 107°F in just a few minutes, mimicking real-life warmth. One user shared, “It’s incredible good!” while another mentioned, “The vibration patterns are interesting, but the warming feature wasn’t especially noticeable.”

Convenient and user-friendly design

This dildo comes with a strong suction cup and remote control for hands-free play. Reviewers have praised its realistic feel and quiet operation, with one saying, “Very quiet and not too strong of a vibration if you don’t want it that way!” However, another review pointed out, “The noise is not ‘quiet’ and ended up being a distraction.”

Body-safe and discreet packaging

Made from high-quality liquid silicone, this dildo is soft and safe. It’s also USB rechargeable and waterproof. While the product claims discreet packaging, one review highlighted, “The wording on the box was not discreet.” Despite this, many users found it a satisfying addition to their collection.

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Powerful and versatile

This strapless strap-on features dual motors with 10 intense modes, providing powerful vibrations for both partners. One user described it as “powerful and versatile,” while another appreciated the remote control’s convenience, stating, “The remote is handy.”

Realistic and flexible design

With a lifelike head and vivid texture, this vibrator offers realistic sensations. A reviewer emphasized its comfort, saying, “The flexible curve of the dildo allows for easy insertion.” Another added, “It’s the quietest vibrator I’ve ever heard, with no detriment to the strength.”

Body-safe and easy to clean

Made from high-quality silicone, this toy is safe and comfortable. It’s also waterproof and USB rechargeable. Users praised its durability and ease of use, with one noting, “Easy to clean, easy to use, and comes with a magnetic style charger.”

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Realistic and stimulating

This thrusting dildo is designed to simulate real touch, offering a realistic experience. A user shared, “The feel and texture are the same as real touch.” It has 9 vibration modes and 5 thrusting speeds, providing varied stimulation for both clitoral and anal play.

Big size and strong suction

With an insertion length of 8.4 inches and a width of 1.8 inches, this dildo is sizable and satisfying. One review highlighted its size, stating, “It’s long and girthy, bigger than expected.” The strong suction cup allows for hands-free play on various surfaces.

Soft and waterproof material

Made from liquid silicone, this dildo is soft and skin-friendly. It’s also waterproof and easy to clean. However, some users reported issues with charging, with one saying, “Only worked for one full charge.” Despite this, many found it a valuable addition to their collection.

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Dual stimulation design

This thrusting dildo offers both thrusting and vibrating functionalities, providing simultaneous G-spot and anal stimulation. A user noted, “It feels sturdy and works great so far.” The remote control adds convenience, allowing for easy adjustments.

Customizable experience

With 11 modes, this dildo offers a variety of settings to explore. One review mentioned, “The vibe function works amazing.” However, another pointed out, “The thrusting part is a bit weak but works decent.”

Realistic and comfortable

Made from premium silicone, this dildo has a realistic texture and feel. It’s also compatible with an intuitive smartphone app, making it easy to customize settings. A user shared, “The app is very easy to set up and the toy is incredibly soft.”

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Special realistic design

This dildo mimics the appearance of a real penis, with raised veins and a simulated head. One user commented, “The veins and high-quality silicon make it slide beautifully.” The soft head reaches the G-spot effectively, providing satisfying stimulation.

Powerful vibration modes

With 10 vibration modes, this dildo caters to both beginners and experienced users. A reviewer mentioned, “You can change the mode at will to constantly stimulate the clitoris and G-spot.”

Ergonomic and waterproof

The circular design of the handheld part makes it easy to hold and less likely to slip. It’s also waterproof and easy to clean. One user praised the design, saying, “The circular grip makes handling the toy easier and adds a sleek look.”

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Many need clit stimulation to cum

Priced at $29.99, the G Spot Vibrator Strap On Dildo by SHUJUN BENCE is a pink silicone toy with an adjustable harness. This dildo features 7 vibration modes and is waterproof. A user expressed, “Something like 85% of people with vulvas need clit stimulation to cum,” highlighting the importance of vibrators for many. This strap-on ensures clitoral satisfaction while respecting personal boundaries: “I don’t care how clean a sex toy is: if someone else has used it, I’m not using it.”

Personal boundaries and preferences matter

Buying new sex toys respects personal boundaries and preferences, making everyone comfortable. One user stated, “I do not want any part of using his communal toys,” emphasizing the need for personal toys. The G Spot Vibrator Strap On Dildo, with its remote control and double dildo design, ensures both partners feel respected and satisfied. The waterproof feature and easy adjustability make it a versatile choice for various intimate moments.

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Fun to wear around

The G-Spot Vibrating Vibrator by GAIWU is a wearable, silicone toy priced at $27.99. This rose-colored vibrator comes with a pair of panties in size M and features 10 vibration modes. A reviewer shared, “This is pretty cool cause you can wear it on the go, if you’re brave enough lol.” This toy offers flexibility with its remote control, making it easy to use and clean. However, some users found it “almost too flexible.”

Works as it should with a few flaws

While the G-Spot Vibrating Vibrator meets expectations, it has minor flaws. One user mentioned, “The power/vibration button is hard to get at while in use.” Despite this, the product is praised for its soft material and comfortable fit. The discreet packaging ensures privacy, making it a great choice for those new to sex toys or looking for an easy-to-use option.

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Loads of satisfaction

Priced at $29.90, the Sex Machine Thrusting Dildo by Quilloria offers 8 vibrating and thrusting modes. Made of silicone, this waterproof toy comes with a strong suction cup for hands-free play. A satisfied user stated, “You will get loads of satisfaction using this toy!” The realistic design, including a flexible tongue and built-in heating feature, guarantees a quick journey to orgasmic bliss.

Wireless freedom and powerful motors

The Sex Machine Thrusting Dildo provides wireless freedom with a 50ft remote control, allowing exploration of thrilling positions. Another user noted, “The suction cup is super strong and it adjusts to any angle pretty much.” This toy is perfect for those seeking intense pleasure with its durable motors and realistic feel. The discreet packaging and one-year warranty offer additional reassurance.

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Better than the real thing

The Thrusting Dildo Vibrator by Hceiidi is a green silicone toy priced at $29.99. It features 10 vibration and thrust modes, dual vibration motors, and is waterproof. A user exclaimed, “This toy does it all. Vibration and thrusting is the perfect combination!” The premium silicone material ensures a body-safe and odorless experience, enhancing intense pleasure for beginners and experienced users alike.

Discreet package and great quality

This vibrator comes with a magnetic USB charging cable and a discreet package. A reviewer mentioned, “The product is well made, easy to use and charge.” The multiple settings allow for personalized pleasure, making it a must-have for any collection. The included storage bag adds convenience, ensuring the toy stays clean and ready for use.

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Feels realistic

The Sex Machine Thrusting Dildo Vibrator by Motaletoy, priced at $25.99, offers 7 thrusting and vibration modes. This black silicone toy features a detachable suction cup and is waterproof. A user shared, “It feels great during use and I notice how realistic it feels right out the box.” The toy’s 180° rotating function allows for adjustable angles, enhancing the overall experience.

Comfortable and discreet

Charging with magnetic USB, this toy is easy to recharge and use anywhere. A reviewer noted, “It’s comfortable and has a very ‘real’ feel to it.” The discreet packaging ensures privacy, making it a versatile addition to any collection. The multiple speeds and vibrations cater to various preferences, providing a satisfying journey to pleasure.

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A mind-blowing intense experience

Priced at $28.98, the GALAFIRE Professional Handheld Electric Massager is a dark red, waterproof vibrator made of silicone. It boasts a professional-grade design for deep tissue massage and offers 10 different vibration modes. One user described their first experience as “SO intense, mind blowingly intense,” highlighting the unique sensations this device provides. Unlike human touch, this massager offers an unparalleled level of pleasure.

A perfect starter device

This vibrator can be a great starter device for those new to sex toys. Its simple design and quiet operation make it particularly suitable for beginners. A user mentioned starting with a corded version that had two settings and found it beneficial. The GALAFIRE’s mini vibrator is small, about the size of a lipstick, and versatile for both external and internal use.

Different than your hands

Another reason to purchase this sex toy is the unique sensations it offers compared to other forms of sexual activity. One user noted that the sensations are “very different than using your or your partner’s hands,” suggesting the toy can provide a novel and satisfying experience.

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A versatile pleasure machine

For $29.99, the HOTMAN Sex Machine offers a multifunctional experience with 10 thrusting and vibrating modes. Made of flesh-colored silicone, it comes with a remote control and a strong suction cup base for hands-free enjoyment. The dildo is designed with realistic details like a curved shaft and textured testicles, enhancing the lifelike experience. One user praised its strong suction cup, stating, “You can place it anywhere because the suction cup is very strong.”

Hands-free pleasure

The remote control feature allows for hands-free play, with a maximum distance of about 40 feet. A user mentioned, “The remote and toy were simple to sync together,” making it easy to use. The dildo’s 230° adjustable angle makes it perfect for both vaginal and anal stimulation.

Realistic and intense

The realistic design includes a slightly reddened head and vividly raised veins, making it look and feel lifelike. The 23° curved shaft fits more closely to private parts, enhancing comfort and pleasure. As one user said, “The powerful thrusting action provides intense pleasure.”

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A multifunctional marvel

At $25.99, the SHIJI Thrusting Dildo Vibrator offers a combination of vibrating, thrusting, and intelligent heating functions. This orange and grey silicone dildo has 10 vibrating modes and 3 thrusting speeds, making it highly versatile. One user praised the product, saying, “Each feature felt amazing, especially the warming feature.”

Strong suction cup for versatile use

The strong suction cup allows for hands-free play, fixing the dildo on almost any smooth surface. This feature is perfect for varied positions and locations, from bathrooms to bedrooms. Another user noted, “The suction cup can firmly fix the realistic penis on almost any smooth surface.”

Premium material and easy cleaning

Made of high-quality liquid silicone, this dildo is non-toxic and body-safe. It is also IPX6 waterproof, making it easy to clean and suitable for water play. A user highlighted its ease of cleaning, stating, “It charges fast, and it’s extremely easy to clean.”

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Long-distance control and strong suction

Priced at $24.99, the Liefdeyou 8.9′ Thrusting Dildo Vibrator is designed for long-distance relationships. It features an app for remote control and a strong suction cup for versatile use. One user mentioned, “You can control vibration using your phone,” making it convenient for both close-range and long-distance play.

Powerful thrusting and vibrating

This 3-in-1 adult toy offers telescoping, vibrating, and rotating functions with 3 thrusting speeds and 9 vibration frequencies. The thrusting length extends up to 7.3 inches, making it easier to hit the G-spot. One user praised its power, saying, “It hits all the right spots without spending a lot.”

Skin-friendly and easy to clean

Made of top-notch liquid silicone, this realistic dildo is skin-friendly and easy to slide into. It is also USB rechargeable and can be cleaned with water or soap. A user highlighted its durability, stating, “Great performance, very comfortable. Amazing battery life.”

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Thrusting and vibrating functions

At $35.99, the Touchmind Thrusting Strapless Strap-On Harness Dildo offers both thrusting and vibrating functions. Made of soft silicone, it features a lifelike glans head and a realistic venous penis. One user described it as “Soft silicone, solid construction, powerful motion and vibration.”

Multiple stimulation modes

With 3 quick thrusting and 9 intense vibrating modes, this dildo stimulates the clit, G-spot, vagina, and anus. The modes range from mild to wild, catering to both beginners and experts. A user mentioned, “Different modes stimulate the clit G-spot vagina and anus.”

Smart app remote control

This vibrator connects to an app via Bluetooth, allowing for various control modes like traditional click, video connection, and music rhythm. The app compatibility adds to the versatility, making it perfect for long-distance play. One user praised its power, saying, “Love the power of the vibrations for the price.”

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Feels good going in with no vibration

This realistic G-spot vibrator is crafted for intense clitoral and G-spot stimulation. The curved design, equipped with sketches of glands and veins, promises deep and satisfying penetration. Vincent T. rates it highly, stating, “Feels good going in with no vibration. Once you turn on the first vibration, it can be a lot to handle at first.” The first three vibrations are notably strong and continuous, enhancing the experience.

The charge will last about an hour

With 10 powerful vibration modes, this toy is perfect for solo or partnered play. It’s waterproof and made from silky smooth silicone, making it easy to clean. Inman B. appreciates the heat function, sharing, “Love the heat button, much better than inserting something that is cold.” The battery life lasts about an hour with steady vibration and heat activated, taking a few hours to charge fully.

A great dildo for beginners and veterans

This toy, priced at $15.99, has a 4.3-star rating from 407 users. It’s praised for its realistic shape, intuitive controls, and heating function. Melvin J. sums it up perfectly: “If you want something that will be ready when you’re in the mood, is relatively firm, and provides warmth, this toy delivers!”

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Compatible with internal and external use

This lifelike dildo vibrator from Yoekey offers 20 different vibration modes, catering to both beginners and experienced users. Elijah notes, “INTERNAL USE (Both front and rear) – Yes! EXTERNAL USE (On chest and groin, for any body type) – Yes!” The strong suction cup allows for versatile play in various locations, and the remote control adds convenience.

The size and shape are great

Priced at $25.99 and boasting a 4.6-star rating from 68 users, it is made from body-safe silicone and is waterproof. Bethany Dewhurst highlights its strong suction and lightweight design: “The size and shape are great, and it has really strong suction.” The USB rechargeable feature ensures long-lasting fun.

Recommended for those accustomed to above average penises

Arthur Padilla recommends this toy for those accustomed to larger sizes, stating, “The size and thickness is a great size. I would not recommend it for smaller women or men new to anal sex.” The vivid glans and lifelike veins add to the realism, making it a popular choice among users.

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The texture is great for lube

LOVETOY’s 10.5-inch silicone dildo vibrator offers a blend of softness and firmness for a natural sensation. Buzzman praises its texture, saying, “The texture is great for lube and the handle is so comfortable!” With 10 powerful vibrations, this toy caters to various needs, perfect for both solo and partnered play.

The heat setting is a definite plus

Priced at $31.99, it has earned a 4.6-star rating from 146 users. Ang loves the heating feature, stating, “I totally love this toy, especially the heat. It’s soo nice.” The magnetic charging port ensures easy and waterproof usage, making it suitable for shower play.

Partner had a great time using this on me

The realistic design, complete with a lifelike head and veined shaft, offers a thrilling experience. Bran & Dan G. share, “My man enjoys using it on me, and I enjoy using it whether with him or alone.” The whisper-quiet vibration adds to the discretion and pleasure.

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Partner had a great time using this on me

This thrusting dildo vibrator stands out with its 3-in-1 functionality, offering 10 vibrating and thrusting modes along with a heating feature. Buzzman appreciates the texture and comfort, stating, “The texture is great for lube and the handle is so comfortable! Partner had a great time using this on me.”

The spherical design of the baseball

Priced at $25.29 and rated 4.2 out of 5 by 99 users, this toy features a unique baseball design for better grip and privacy. Olivia loves the fun design, sharing, “This ‘baseball bat’ is very fun to use and feels good.” The advanced charging technology ensures hassle-free use, making it a reliable choice for uninterrupted pleasure.

More than enough for those hard to reach places

The realistic texture, combined with the thrusting and vibrating modes, offers unmatched thrills. Nathan Ford highlights its size, noting, “I was not expecting this to be so big and long. The wife absolutely loved the length and once she lubed me up I did too.” The ease of cleaning and charging adds to its convenience, making it a must-have in any collection.

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The perfect gift for women

WODDLIY’s thrusting dildo vibrator combines thrusting, vibrating, heating, and remote control features in one toy. Priced at $29.98, it has a 4.2-star rating from 34 users. The optimal penis size and shape ensure a comfortable fit, making it a great gift for women.

Realistic dildo with 10 vibrating modes

The lifelike design, with a textured shaft and realistic veins, enhances the experience. The multiple play modes, including thrusting and vibrating, provide various options for pleasure. The waterproof and body-safe silicone material ensures safe and enjoyable use, even in the shower.

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Feels smooth and comfortable

This purple vibrator from AVXOO, priced at $16.99, is a versatile toy that combines a dildo and clitoral vibrator in one. Made of safe silicone, it features a dual motor and 10 vibration modes. It’s designed to hit the C, U, and G spots simultaneously. One user, Miss Lee, shared her delight, saying, “The shape of the device allows it to hit the right spots and stay in place without having to constantly hold it ‘in’.”

Quiet but powerful

Another review highlighted its power and quiet operation: “The noise of less than 60 decibels at work will not disturb you.” Users appreciate its ergonomic design and the flexibility it offers.

Discreet and reliable

With a waterproof design and USB charging, it ensures long-lasting pleasure. James and Ashlee raved, “The satisfaction I got out of it was so fulfilling. I enjoyed it three times in a row.” This toy is packaged discreetly, guaranteeing privacy. If you encounter any issues, the quality service provided ensures you are well taken care of.

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Fun and flexible

Priced at $29.77, this pink wearable chin vibrator from ASNOKNAE is both innovative and amusing. It features a 6.2-inch dildo and 10 vibration modes. Made from soft silicone, it’s perfect for oral pleasure or solo play. One user, SK, shared, “I thought this was pretty silly but I figured I would get a laugh out of it. And I did. But that’s not all. It was actually a lot of fun.”

Adjustable and comfortable

The adjustable strap, made from high-quality material, ensures a perfect fit for everyone. MysteriousMusician noted, “It does slip around sometimes, and you look completely ridiculous wearing it, but it’s the type of thing you add when you’re very comfortable with your partner.”

Versatile use

With its remote control functionality and IPX-6 waterproof rating, it’s great for various scenarios. Work good stated, “The remote-controlled toy with a user-friendly design, including a thick sleeve option for added enjoyment.” The discreet packaging ensures your privacy is maintained.

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Comfortable and adjustable

This skin-colored strap-on from UTIMI, priced at $39.49, offers two detachable dildos with 10 vibration modes. Made of premium silicone, it’s designed for both vaginal and anal stimulation. LE123 shared, “It’s comfortable, adjustable, and stays in place even with the weight of multiple toys attached at the same time.”

Easy to use and versatile

The ergonomic design and remote control make it user-friendly. S Daniel praised, “It’s as simple as screwing it on to angling it to your liking for you and your partner.” The rechargeable feature ensures prolonged pleasure.

High-quality and discreet

Wesley highlighted the product’s quality, stating, “Not only was it easy to use and understand, but the product was very well made.” With discreet packaging, your privacy is assured. The product is suitable for lesbians, homosexuality, women couples, and beginners.

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Realistic and life-like

This flesh-colored dildo from Vlatne, priced at $16.99, is designed to feel like real skin. Made of double-layer liquid silicone, it features a lifelike head, shaft, and balls. Deborah Lamb exclaimed, “It’s huge and very life-like, never seen one look so real looks and FEELS like real skin!!”

Perfect size and strong suction

With a total length of 8.5 inches and a diameter of 1.6 inches, it’s ideal for both beginners and experts. The powerful suction cup allows for hands-free play on various surfaces. Crystal_Starchild stated, “This is literally the best dildo I’ve ever bought. Even better than a Doc Johnson one.”

Easy to clean and discreet

The soft and flexible material ensures comfort, and it’s easy to clean with warm water and soap. Lara shared an enthusiastic review, “This is a knee-shaking, solo-bed-breaking, big boy who packs a PUNCH!” The discreet packaging ensures your privacy is protected.

Conclusion

Selecting the best dildo vibrator can significantly enhance your pleasure and provide unforgettable orgasms. Among the top choices, the LITLLS Thrusting Vibrator stands out for its lifelike design and powerful thrusting modes, making it a favorite for many. The DEARVIBE Flapping Dildo offers unique flapping and vibrating functions, perfect for long-distance play with its app and remote control. For a more versatile experience, the ANKUYER Thrusting Dildo with its heating and 360° rotation features is a fantastic option. Lastly, the SHIJI Realistic Dildo Vibrator combines durability and intense sensations, ensuring a satisfying experience.

Dive into our complete guide to vibrating dildos for women and enhance your intimate experiences. Choose the dildo vibrator that best suits your needs and preferences, and get ready to explore your desires like never before.

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Exploring the Pleasure of Vibrating Dildos for Women: A Comprehensive Guide

Are you curious about the intense pleasure a vibrating dildo can offer? This guide delves deep into the world of vibrating dildos, spotlighting their benefits, features, and different types available. Have you ever wondered if size matters or what specific features you should look for in a vibrating dildo? From beginner advice to advanced tips for maximizing pleasure, this article covers it all, ensuring you find the perfect toy to elevate your sexual experiences. Let’s explore the options and find what suits your desires best.

Understanding what a vibrating dildo is

Vibrating dildos are a popular sex toy designed to combine the realistic feel of a human penis with the powerful stimulation of vibrations. This unique combination can offer intense pleasure that many find unmatched by other types of sex toys. The lifelike design provides a familiar sensation, while the added vibrations bring an extra element of excitement.

The vibrations in these dildos add an extra layer of stimulation that a regular penis cannot provide. This makes the experience more pleasurable and varied. Grinding on a vibrating dildo, especially when it’s well-lubed, can heighten sensations and lead to intense climaxes.

This blend of realism and powerful vibrations makes vibrating dildos a favorite for many users. The unique features they offer set them apart from other sex toys, providing a versatile and enjoyable experience.

Find the Benefits of Vibrating Dildos

Understanding what a vibrating dildo is sets the stage for exploring its benefits. Knowing this basics helps in appreciating how these devices can enhance pleasure.

Enhanced Stimulation:

The combination of penetration and vibration leads to intense sensations.
This dual action results in heightened arousal and more powerful orgasms.

Versatility:

Vibrating dildos can be used for solo play, offering a personal and intimate experience.
They also add excitement when used with a partner, enhancing couples’ play.

Exploration and Discovery:

Using a vibrating dildo allows for the exploration of the body.
It helps in discovering erogenous zones and experimenting with different levels of stimulation.

As noted, vibrating dildos offer multiple benefits that enhance sexual experiences. They are versatile tools that can be enjoyed alone or with a partner, providing both stimulation and opportunities for personal discovery.

Key Features to Look for in a Vibrating Dildo

When selecting a vibrating dildo, understanding the key features can make a significant difference in your experience. One crucial aspect is the vibration patterns. These can range from gentle buzzing to intense waves. For instance, the Doc Johnson Jeff Stryker offers a variety of patterns that can greatly enhance the pleasure.

Material and texture are also important. Some models, like the Exotic Diamond, have a lifelike veined texture and are made from materials that feel incredibly real. This can add to the overall enjoyment and make the experience more satisfying.

Noise level is another critical feature to consider. A powerful motor is great, but it should also be quiet, especially if discretion is important. The Exotic Diamond is known for being surprisingly quiet despite its strong motor, making it a good choice for those looking for a discreet option.

Does Size Matter When Picking a Vibrating Dildo?

Size is an important factor when choosing a vibrating dildo. The thickness or girth can influence comfort and satisfaction. The Doc Johnson Jeff Stryker, for example, is noted for its 3″ girth, making it a substantial choice for those who prefer a thicker toy.

Length is another consideration. Some users prefer longer dildos for a different kind of experience. The Pearl Shine Realistic Vibrator Dildo is the longest on the list, offering something unique. For those new to sex toys, starting with a smaller size can be less intimidating. The Lovehoney BASICS Realistic Dildo Vibrator, with its 1.5″ depth, is a comfortable starting point.

Factors to Consider About Price When Choosing a Vibrating Dildo

Price is a significant factor in the decision-making process. Higher-end options like the Doc Johnson Jeff Stryker are more expensive but offer superior quality and performance. These can be worth the investment if your budget allows.

Mid-range options provide a balance between quality and cost. The Exotic Diamond, for instance, offers strong engines and lifelike textures at a reasonable price. Budget-friendly options like the Lovehoney BASICS Realistic Dildo Vibrator can still perform surprisingly well despite their lower price tags. These are great for those looking to spend less without sacrificing too much quality.

Types of Vibrating Dildos Available

Knowing the key features helps in understanding the different types of vibrating dildos available. There are various types of vibrating dildos, each with unique features to enhance pleasure.

Some vibrating dildos come with clitoral stimulators, such as the Lovehoney Triple Tickler Dildo Vibrator. This type combines penetration with external stimulation, providing intensified pleasure. The dual-action design targets multiple sensitive areas at once, making it a popular choice.

Other models, like the Real Feel 9 Dildo Vibrator, are designed with life-like skin textures. Made from advanced materials like FantaFlesh, these dildos aim to provide a more realistic experience. They mimic the feel of real skin, enhancing the overall sensation.

Another type to consider is the BigBanana Vibrating Dildo. This model offers unique features such as a “thrusting” vibration setting. This adds an extra dimension to the pleasure, simulating a more lifelike experience.

Is a Thrusting Dildo Vibrator with Tongue Licking Worth It?

A thrusting dildo vibrator with a tongue licking feature offers a comprehensive pleasure experience. This 8.7” g-spot thrusting dildo boasts a close-to-real skin design. With lifelike glans, vivid veins, and natural balls, it provides an incredibly realistic feel. The flexible little tongue can stimulate the clitoris while the g-spot dildo targets the vagina, offering dual stimulation.

Compared to traditional thrusting vibrators, this model features multiple modes. It has 3 thrusting modes, 9 vibration modes, swing modes, and a heating function. The combination of these modes with the flexible tongue provides intense pleasure.

This type of dildo also includes a powerful suction cup. It can stick to any smooth surface, allowing for hands-free play. The remote control feature lets users switch between different modes, enhancing the overall experience.

Is a Thrusting Dildo Rabbit Vibrator Good for Women?

The Thrusting Rabbit Vibrator offers a unique combination of design and functionality. It includes a penis-like structure, a vibrating rabbit, and a rose shape. The glans and shaft provide deep stimulation of the g-spot and anal area, while the bunny ears caress the clitoris.

This vibrator features 10 powerful vibrations and 3 thrusting modes. These settings offer a variety of sensations, making it versatile. The vibrating rabbit gently strokes the clitoris while the thrusting action adds intensity.

Made from smooth silicone, this vibrator is soft to the touch. It targets every sensitive area for silky pleasure. Operating quietly, it is suitable for discreet use at home or in other private settings.

How to Ride Vibrating Rabbit Dildos

Vibrating rabbit dildos often come with multifunctional features. These include various vibrating, thrusting, and rotating modes. These modes provide different levels of stimulation, making the experience more intense. The flexible tip can easily reach sensitive spots, ensuring maximum pleasure.

Unlike regular dildos, vibrating rabbit dildos do most of the work. With their thrusting and rotating capabilities, the user only needs to hold the dildo in place. The combination of vibrations, thrusts, and rotations can lead to intense orgasms.

For those seeking versatility, the Alpha Rabbit Dildo is a good option. It offers dual stimulation of both the g-spot and clitoris. With 7 vibration modes and 7 suction modes, it provides various choices to explore. This next-generation rabbit dildo promises unforgettable sensations, making it ideal for an intimate journey.

Choosing the Perfect Vibrating Dildo

Understanding the types of vibrating dildos available helps in making an informed choice. With so many options, it’s essential to consider a few key factors to find the best fit for your needs.

Size and Shape

Choosing a size and shape that is comfortable and appealing is important. Some may prefer a realistic design, while others may opt for a more abstract shape. Think about what feels best for you and what meets your personal preferences.

Material

Vibrating dildos come in various materials, including silicone, rubber, and glass. Silicone is a popular choice due to its body-safe properties and realistic feel. Rubber and glass have their unique benefits too, so consider what material feels right for you.

Vibration Settings

Consider the range of vibration settings offered by the dildo. Look for options that provide multiple intensity levels and patterns. This allows for a more personalized and enjoyable experience.

What Should First-Time Vibrator Users Consider?

Choosing the right vibrator can be daunting for first-time users. There are a few tips that can help make the process easier.

Jacob advises that if you buy the wrong vibrator, you likely can’t return it or get your money back. There are many different kinds of toys with various shapes, sizes, and purposes, making it important to get the right one from the start. Consulting dedicated online communities can provide recommendations and guidance on safe toys.

Cynthia suggests starting with cheaper versions of different types of vibrators if the user is inexperienced. This approach allows the user to explore various sensations, like standard vibrations, sucking, or licking, to see what they prefer. It emphasizes the value of experimenting with different types to identify personal preferences.

Brenda recommends beginning with a vibrator that is simple and elegant, designed for clitoral stimulation, made from high-grade silicone, rechargeable, and not overly explicit in appearance. This can provide a comfortable starting point, and if the experience is positive, subsequent shopping can be done together to further explore preferences.

What Tips Help Choose the Right Vibrator?

Selecting the right vibrator involves understanding your preferences and needs.

Ask yourself if you usually go for insertion, only external stimulation, or both. This will narrow it down. If you usually don’t do any insertion when masturbating, start with a simple bullet or a wand. If you focus most of your attention on fingering or enjoy PIV sex more than masturbating yourself, go with a vibrating dildo. If you usually want both to get off, maybe try a rabbit type that does both.

It’s overwhelming how many toys there are, but you can narrow most of them down to four basic types. So do that first, then look into that type. A bullet or wand are the best starters and can’t go wrong. You can get the best of both worlds with some of the dildo types too because you don’t have to insert them when you don’t want to. Most of them will still work well as a clit vibe.

Start small and cheap and work your way up. If you can have things delivered, websites like Adam and Eve offer discounts and free shipping. This approach helps in exploring different options without a significant upfront investment.

Recommendations for Different Vibrator Brands and Models

With the right considerations in mind, let’s explore some recommended brands and models. It’s important to find a vibrator that meets your needs and preferences. Here are some popular options to consider.

Womanizer Pro vs. Satisfyer Pro 2

The Womanizer Pro and Satisfyer Pro 2 are both highly regarded. They offer long warranties and will ship a replacement if the product breaks, provided you have a receipt. One user mentioned puncturing their Womanizer’s silicone part while cleaning, and it was still replaced without issues.

While both models are effective, the Womanizer Pro tends to be more powerful. Users report rarely needing higher settings. Although more expensive, it’s often worth the investment. For those new to toys or on a budget, the Satisfyer Pro 2 is also a solid choice. It may lack some power compared to the Womanizer, but it still provides satisfactory results.

Hitachi Magic Wand Review

The Hitachi Magic Wand is known for its strong, deep vibrations. It can become overwhelming quickly, making it ideal for those who enjoy intense stimulation. Users consistently praise its performance.

One reviewer described the Hitachi Magic Wand as “excellent,” noting its two settings are usually sufficient. They found it to be a reliable investment, costing around $60. The wand’s powerful vibrations make it a standout option for those seeking intense pleasure.

Womanizer Pro Review

The Womanizer Pro stands out for its ability to produce rapid orgasms. Users often climax within a minute on the lowest setting. This is particularly notable for those who typically take longer to reach orgasm.

Users also appreciate the Womanizer Pro’s ability to be used multiple times in a day without diminishing returns. One person reported using it five times in a single day, with each session lasting between 2-7 minutes. The intensity of the orgasms remained consistent throughout the day.

Is the WeVibe Touch Worth It?

The We-Vibe Touch X is praised for its smooth silicone texture, which is gentle on sensitive tissue. It offers a range of vibration settings, from mild to strong, making it suitable for various preferences.

Users with conditions like vulvodynia find the We-Vibe Touch X particularly beneficial. It helps them feel more hopeful about enjoying sexual activities again. Despite its higher price point, many find it worth the investment due to its effectiveness and comfort.

LoveHoney Silencer Whisper Vibrator Review

The LoveHoney Silencer Whisper Vibrator receives high marks from users. One reviewer rated it 4.5 out of 5 stars, appreciating its performance despite not being completely silent at higher levels. This indicates its effectiveness.

The user highlighted that this vibrator is their favorite toy, suggesting a strong preference over others. This consistent satisfaction emphasizes the vibrator’s capability to provide pleasure.

Tracy’s Dog Sex Toys Review

Tracy’s Dog offers a g-spot vibrator that has garnered positive reviews. The material is advertised as silicone, though some confusion exists due to translation issues. Despite this, many users report satisfaction with its performance.

The Tracy’s Dog OG model combines g-spot stimulation with clitoral suction. While some find it uncomfortable, others praise its effectiveness and value for money. Alternatives like the Womanizer Duo or LELO Enigma might offer better comfort and fit, albeit at a higher price.

Some users have experienced issues with Tracy’s Dog’s customer service, particularly with shipping delays and lack of response. However, others report timely delivery and well-packaged products, including a satin case for storage.

Tips to Maximize Pleasure

With the right vibrator in hand, let’s explore how to maximize your pleasure.

Experiment with Different Settings

Take the time to explore the various vibration settings to find what feels best for you. Different settings can provide varied sensations, so don’t rush through this process. Experimentation is key to discovering what truly enhances your experience.

Use Lubrication

Apply a water-based lubricant to the dildo to enhance comfort and reduce friction during use. Lubrication can make the experience smoother and more enjoyable. It’s a simple step that can make a significant difference in your comfort level.

Explore Different Positions

Vibrating dildos can be used in a variety of positions for different sensations and levels of stimulation. Trying out different positions can help you find what feels most pleasurable. Some positions might offer deeper penetration, while others might enhance clitoral stimulation.

Should you start with low vibration and explore?

Starting with a low vibration is often a good idea. For many women, internal stimulation may not be as effective initially. Begin by placing the vibrator a little higher than the clitoris, more on the “bumper” area. Slowly move the vibrator down towards the clitoris, adjusting its position until you find the sweet spot. For some, it might be on the left side, and sometimes it feels better when straightening the legs instead of keeping them bent.

Trying the vibrator with clothes on can also be a helpful first step. Turn it on and explore different areas to see what feels best. Don’t rush; take your time and enjoy the sensations. Follow the pleasure and keep it going where it feels good.

As mentioned, vibrators are primarily for clitoral stimulation rather than internal use. Once you locate your clitoris, try using the vibrator just to the side of it. Direct vibration on top can sometimes be overstimulating, so finding the right spot near the clitoris can enhance your experience.

Take your time to discover the right spot

It can take a little while to find the right spot. For many women, internal stimulation might not be as effective. As noted previously, starting with a low vibration and moving the vibrator slowly towards the clitoris can help. Move it around until you find the sweet spot. For some, it might be on the left side, and it often feels better when legs are straightened.

Again, using the vibrator with clothes on first can assist in discovering what areas feel best. Turn it on, explore, and don’t rush the process. Enjoy the sensations and follow the pleasure.

Finding the right spot can sometimes be a journey. Usually, it’s not in the vagina but rather around the clitoris. Once you figure it out, you’ll know. Take your time, explore, and enjoy the process of discovering what works best for you.

Why Is Understanding Arousal Key to Pleasure?

Maximizing pleasure involves understanding arousal and how different materials can enhance the experience. Whether engaging in solo activities or sharing the moment with a partner, the material of the toy can significantly impact the sensation and overall experience.

Cyberskin is a popular choice for those seeking a realistic and lifelike feel. This material warms up when stretched, rubbed, or used, mimicking the warmth of human skin. The added warmth can heighten arousal, making the experience more intense and enjoyable. Cyberskin also looks more realistic compared to silicone-only or PVC-only products, adding to the authenticity of the experience.

Using Cyberskin products requires specific care. Since Cyberskin contains silicone, it’s important to use only water-based lubricants to avoid damaging the material. After use, clean the toy with an antibacterial toy cleaner to maintain hygiene and prolong its lifespan.

Cyberskin revolutionized sex toys for both men and women due to its warming technology. This material heats up during use or when placed on a warming rod, simulating the body’s natural temperature. Additionally, Cyberskin has the ability to return to its original shape after use, ensuring durability and longevity. This means you can enjoy your toy repeatedly without worrying about wear and tear.

Understanding how different materials like Cyberskin can enhance arousal is crucial for maximizing pleasure. It allows users to make informed choices about their toys, ensuring a satisfying and enjoyable experience every time.

Understanding clitoral stimulation is crucial

Understanding arousal naturally leads to the importance of clitoral stimulation. Many women find that starting on the outside rather than the inside is key. The clitoris is a highly sensitive area that can provide immense pleasure. By locating it with the help of a diagram and a mirror, you can see and understand its position better. This will be your “magic button.”

Finding the Right Spot

Vibrators are often designed for clitoral stimulation. Directly placing a vibrator on the clitoris can sometimes be too intense. Instead, try positioning it just to the side. This approach can offer a more enjoyable experience without overstimulation.

Practical Tips

Most women get the majority of their pleasure from clitoral stimulation, either directly or indirectly. Internal stimulation can feel good but might not always lead to orgasm, and that’s perfectly normal. Forcing a finger or toy into the vagina when not fully aroused can cause discomfort or even small tears in the tissue. Ensure you’re well-lubricated, either naturally or with store-bought lube, to avoid any pain or injury.

Why Is Knowing Your Anatomy Important?

Understanding your anatomy is crucial for enhancing your pleasure. The clitoris is a key part of female sexual pleasure, yet many are unaware of its full potential. Familiarizing yourself with your own body can be empowering and lead to better sexual experiences.

Exploring Your Body

One of the best things you can do is to get comfortable with your own body. Knowing your likes and dislikes helps you communicate better with your partner. Once you understand the clitoris, you may notice an increase in natural lubrication, which can make other activities, like fingering, more enjoyable.

Using a Vibrator

A vibrator can enhance pleasure, but it’s important to know what feels good without it first. Begin exploring when you’re already turned on. Take your time to discover what sensations you enjoy. This foundational knowledge will make using a vibrator more effective in enhancing your pleasure.

Practical Tips

Start Slow: Use your hands to explore different areas of your body.
Pay Attention to Sensations: Notice what areas respond more to touch.
Use Visual Aids: Diagrams and educational materials can help you understand your anatomy better.

Understanding your anatomy, particularly the clitoris, is an essential step in maximizing your pleasure. This knowledge not only enhances solo experiences but also improves intimacy with a partner.

Should you use visual aids to learn about anatomy?

Understanding your anatomy can be greatly enhanced by using visual aids. Knowing what you’re working with helps in finding what brings the most pleasure. One effective method is to use diagrams and a mirror to identify different parts of your vulva. This can be your key to discovering what feels good.

Practical Tips for Using Visual Aids

Finding a reliable diagram is a good starting point. Websites like OMGYes offer detailed visuals and explanations on various masturbation techniques. Although it requires a subscription, many find it worthwhile for the comprehensive information it provides.

Another valuable resource is Teen Vogue’s anatomy page. This page includes diagrams and detailed descriptions of the vulva, helping you to understand your body better. This can be especially useful for those new to exploring their anatomy.

How to Get Started

Find a Diagram: Look for reputable sources that provide clear and accurate diagrams of female anatomy.
Use a Mirror: This will allow you to compare the diagram to your own body, making it easier to identify different parts.
Explore: Take your time to explore and get familiar with your anatomy. Knowledge is empowerment.

By using visual aids, you’re taking an important step towards understanding your body. This knowledge will enhance your confidence and help you maximize pleasure.

What Are the Best Ways to Explore Your Body?

Exploring your body can be a journey of discovery and pleasure. Using visual aids can guide you in this process, helping you understand your anatomy better. Before bringing a vibrator into the mix, try using your fingers first. This helps you identify your pleasure points and understand where and how you like to be touched.

Start on the outside rather than the inside. Many women find the clitoris to be a major source of pleasure. A mirror and a diagram can be incredibly helpful. Take your time to explore this area and see how it feels. This approach can make the experience more enjoyable and less frustrating.

Try using the vibrator with clothes on initially. Turn it on and see which areas feel best. Don’t rush; take your time to enjoy the sensations. Follow the pleasure and keep exploring where it feels good. This method allows you to get familiar with the vibrator’s settings and your body’s responses.

Should Men Be Involved with Sex Toys?

Men should not be dismissive or ashamed to use sex toys. Many vibrators have features that can be pleasurable for men as well. Some vibrators have prongs that can wrap around the shaft or head, providing unique sensations. Others have tiny tips or extensions that can stimulate sensitive areas like the urethra. Electric current features can also lead to hands-free orgasms.

The clitoris and penis are made of similar materials and function in comparable ways. This similarity suggests that men can explore sex toys designed for women to stimulate their own sensitive areas. The penis is often described as a larger clitoris, indicating that experimenting with these toys can be beneficial for men as well.

Male involvement can enhance the sexual experience for both partners. For example, a We-Vibe Melt can be controlled remotely, adding an element of excitement and connection. This kind of involvement shows that sex toys can be a shared experience, enhancing intimacy and pleasure for both partners.

Where to Buy a Vibrating Dildo

Now that you know how to explore your body, let’s discuss where to buy a vibrating dildo.

Visiting a Brick-and-Mortar Shop

If you’re 18 or older, visiting a brick-and-mortar shop is a great option. These stores often have knowledgeable staff, mostly women, who can give advice and help you find the right product. They can guide you through various options and answer any questions you might have. The ability to see products in person can also help you make a more informed decision.

Shopping Online

For those who prefer online shopping, Amazon is a popular choice for discreet purchases. They offer options for drop box and post office pickup if you don’t want the package delivered to your house. This can help maintain privacy if your family checks your packages. Amazon also has a wide range of products and user reviews that can help you decide.

Another excellent online option is Adam & Eve. They ship in very discreet boxes, and as long as your parents don’t fully open everything that comes in, you should be able to maintain your privacy. They also offer tracking so you can see exactly when and where it arrives. Adam & Eve often have sales and promotions, making it a cost-effective choice for quality products.

Practical Tips for Buying

When buying a vibrating dildo, consider checking the return policy, especially if you’re buying online. Some stores offer satisfaction guarantees, which can be helpful if the product doesn’t meet your expectations. Reading user reviews can also provide insights into the product’s performance and durability. Prioritize stores that emphasize discreet shipping to maintain your privacy.

By choosing the right place to buy your vibrating dildo, you can ensure a safe and satisfying purchase experience.

Places to Avoid Shopping From

While there are good places to buy, there are also places to avoid.

Avoid Amazon and eBay

Buying sex toys from Amazon or eBay is highly discouraged. There is a significant risk of counterfeit toys on these platforms. These toys might not be the brand or material they claim to be. Worse, they could even be used. The potential savings are often negated by the high risk of the toy failing after a short period. And there is no recourse for returns or refunds.

Stay Away from Liberator

Liberator is another retailer to avoid. Beyond their poor customer service, they fail to provide discreet packaging. Past customers have reported that the mailing address explicitly stated “Liberator.” The name of the product was also labeled on the outside of the box. This compromises privacy.

Check for “Black Lists”

Sex toy reviewers often maintain “Black Lists” of companies they advise against supporting. These lists are based on negative personal interactions, reader feedback, or public bad behavior. Notable lists include Epiphora’s List and Lilly’s List. These lists provide valuable insights into which retailers to avoid.

Tips for Safety and Care

After purchasing, it’s important to know how to care for your vibrating dildo. Regular cleaning is essential. Neglecting proper cleaning can lead to infections such as yeast or bladder infections. Wash your dildo thoroughly after each use to avoid these painful and uncomfortable conditions.

Using a spray cleaner specifically designed for sex toys can make the cleaning process easier. These sprays are available at most sex shops. They can help you avoid awkward conversations about why you’re washing your dildo in the sink. For an extra layer of cleanliness, consider putting condoms on your dildos. This can help keep them clean between uses and prevent them from getting dirty or dusty when stored.

Additionally, using gentle vaginal/vulva soap and hot water is effective for cleaning. This eliminates the need for expensive toy cleaners. Simple cleaning methods can be just as effective, ensuring your toy remains hygienic and safe to use.

Material Safety

Medical-grade silicone is one of the best options if you want a realistic toy. It is extremely safe due to its non-porous nature. Also, medical-grade silicone has a good density that will give your dildo some nice weight.

Cyberskin is another very popular material among fans of realistic toys. As the name suggests, it resembles actual human skin. It is a kind of thermoplastic that is elastic and soft to the touch. Since it is thermoplastic, it warms up due to friction, enhancing the experience.

ABS plastic (a completely safe, phthalate-free type of plastic) and TPE are other alternatives. TPE is much more affordable than the other materials mentioned and is generally considered safe. However, TPE can have an unpleasant, synthetic, and chemical-like smell, which many sex toy users find off-putting.

Choosing the right material for your vibrating dildo is crucial for both safety and enjoyment. Each material has its benefits, so consider what is most important for your needs.

What are the best reviews and recommendations?

With safety and care in mind, let’s explore some of the best reviews and recommendations for vibrating dildos and clitoral stimulators.

The Womanizer and Satisfyer are two highly recommended brands for clitoral suction vibrators. The Womanizer Pro is noted for its power and effectiveness. Meanwhile, the Satisfyer is praised for being a budget-friendly option that still delivers pleasing results. Users highlight the importance of personal anatomy in choosing between these brands. The heads of the devices differ in size and shape, which can influence the experience.

The Magic Wand is frequently recommended as a powerful and reliable vibrator. It’s noted for its long battery life, with some users mentioning it can last for up to two months on a single charge. This vibrator is suitable for both external stimulation and can be used with various attachments for different sensations. This makes it a versatile choice for solo and partnered play.

The rose toy is another popular clitoral stimulator that has received rave reviews. It features a unique suction mechanism, with users describing it as gently sucking on the clit, leading to guaranteed orgasms. It is often compared to the Womanizer, with some users preferring the rose for its ease of use and effectiveness in hitting the right spots.

Bullet vibrators are recommended as a great starting point for beginners. They are small, discreet, and easy to use, making them a popular choice for those new to sex toys. Additionally, bullet vibrators are often praised for their affordability and the variety of options available on the market.

The importance of choosing a vibrator based on personal comfort and exploration is emphasized. Users suggest starting with mid-priced items to find the size, shape, and style that best suits individual preferences. Brands like FunFactory, We-Vibe, Lovense, and Doxy are recommended for their quality and durability. It’s also advised to consider reviews from independent sources to avoid biased recommendations from big publications.

Professional Evaluations

A professional reviewer mentions that their favorite vibrator remains the Eroscillator Top Deluxe after multiple years. This suggests its reliability and effectiveness in delivering pleasure. The same reviewer also mentions their favorite dildo being a toss-up between the Njoy Eleven and Fucking Sculptures Double Trouble. This highlights the variety and quality of products they have tried and suggests these are exceptional options.

The professional reviewer’s friend wrote a guide for beginning or hopeful sex toy reviewers. This guide shares resources for those interested in entering the field, indicating a supportive community and the availability of expert advice for new reviewers.

What Do Users Think About Using Sex Toys?

A detailed review by Katherine shares an intense experience with a clit sucker. The user describes the anticipation of the product, the strong vibrations, and the multiple suction levels. The experience was so powerful that it led to fainting goat-like leg reactions, rapid and intense orgasms, and even a soul-leaving-body moment. The user underscores the necessity of stretching and hydrating before using the toy.

Another user, Anna, recounts a similarly dramatic reaction to the same toy. They describe feeling like they were going to have a stroke due to the strength of the orgasms. The intensity was so high that it scared them, but they still found the toy to be incredibly effective and satisfying.

A commenter named Carolyn shares their honeymoon experience with a clit suction toy called the Rose. The toy was so effective that it caused the user’s wife to orgasm within 23 seconds. This highlights how certain sex toys can significantly enhance sexual experiences and satisfaction, leading to strong and rapid orgasms.

Creative Ways to Use Everyday Objects

Beyond traditional sex toys, there are creative ways to use everyday objects for sexual pleasure.

Using Vegetables and Fruits

One user creatively mentions using a cucumber from their garden as a dildo. They noted its fantastic feel but also its fragility. This highlights the inventive use of everyday items for sexual pleasure. While this is an imaginative approach, it’s essential to ensure the item is thoroughly cleaned and safe to use to avoid any potential health risks.

Household Items for Stimulation

Another user shares their experience with using a hairbrush for masturbation. Even though it doesn’t vibrate, the handle provided a unique form of stimulation. This shows how common household items can be repurposed for sexual pleasure. It’s important to choose items with smooth surfaces and avoid anything that could cause injury.

Personalized Experiences

A user mentions making a vibrator using their partner’s penis as a model to create a cast. This creative approach resulted in a personalized and unique experience. Again, safety is paramount; ensure any materials used are body-safe and free from harmful chemicals.

Using everyday objects can add a new dimension to sexual exploration. However, always prioritize safety and hygiene to ensure a pleasurable and safe experience.

Why Should You Involve Your Partner in Choosing a Toy?

Involving your partner in selecting a sex toy can significantly enhance the experience. It ensures that both parties are comfortable and excited about the choice, leading to a more pleasurable and fulfilling experience.

Shopping Together

Joshua emphasizes the importance of shopping with your partner. He suggests that having her choose the vibrator ensures it meets her preferences. Buying the wrong toy can be a waste of money. Personal involvement can prevent this and make the process more enjoyable. Shopping at sex-positive, woman-friendly stores can also offer valuable assistance in finding a suitable product.

Exploring Preferences

Catherine highlights that shopping for a vibrator should be a joint effort, especially if the partner has no prior experience. By exploring different types of sensations together, the chosen vibrator will align with her preferences. This collaborative approach can enhance the overall experience and ensure satisfaction for both partners.

Importance of Personal Preference

Angela succinctly notes that the partner must like the style and shape of the vibrator. This underlines the importance of personal preference in the selection process. Ensuring the chosen product is appealing and comfortable for her is crucial for a positive experience.

Exploring your body and sexual preferences is a personal and healthy journey. Many women have faced similar anxieties and have successfully overcome them.

Embracing Normality

The societal pressure to conform to certain sexual norms is immense. However, exploring your own body is a personal and healthy journey. Many women have faced similar anxieties and have successfully overcome them. Embracing sex-positivity is a significant step toward personal empowerment and sexual liberation.

Seeking Support

Joshua advises not to be hard on yourself, as the embarrassment felt is a reflection of societal stigmas surrounding sex and masturbation. Embracing sex-positivity is a significant step toward personal empowerment and sexual liberation. Seeking resources like supportive communities and educational materials can greatly alleviate embarrassment and help you feel more confident in your sexual exploration.

Practical Tips

Ronald suggests starting with something simple like the Gigi2 by LELO. Additionally, exploring porn that caters to female audiences can help in becoming more comfortable with your sexuality. Communities like /r/chickflixxx and Bellesa.co offer supportive environments that can help in overcoming embarrassment and enhancing your sexual confidence.

Additional Resources and Tips

Overcoming shame can be supported by accessing extra resources and tips. Ensuring your sex toys are made of safe materials is important. Always choose 100% silicone products. Avoid items labeled as “jelly” materials, “skin safe rubber,” TPE, or similar. They might be unsafe for internal use. Use water-based lube if needed, as other types can damage the silicone or any latex condoms you may use. Always wash your toy before and after use. Store it wrapped in something to protect it from dust and scratches. This practice maintains your health and optimizes your pleasure.

External stimulation can be achieved with classic, affordable models like egg or bullet vibrators. The Fukuoko 9000 and Wireless Massage Wand are also good options. These can be used for both external and internal stimulation. As mentioned, recommendations for specific types of vibrators can help you find what best suits your needs.

Shopping for sex toys online offers a wide range of options and privacy. It is often more discrete and comfortable. Sometimes, you can even receive your purchase the next day. This convenience allows you to explore new products without delay.

Thinking about getting vibrators?

With all the information provided, you might be thinking about getting a vibrator. Vibrating dildos aren’t for everyone, but they offer unique sensations that many find enjoyable. For those who crave those toe-curling, eye-rolling vibes, consider a vibrating dildo like the Simpli Pleasure Dildo Vibrator. It features seven customizable vibration modes designed to maximize your pleasure. Its petite size makes it manageable and perfect for those new to vibrators.

Are you regretting not buying a vibrating dildo? Don’t worry — you can still enjoy similar sensations. Try bringing a vibrating cock ring to the mix, like Simpli Pleasures’ Vibrating Bullet C Ring. This alternative can provide an exciting experience and solve your dilemma.

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Are you planning to buy a latex gimp suit? Here is a checklist of what you need to know before buying one:

If you are looking to get yourself a new gimp suit, there are a few things you need to know. Visit this checklist before buying a latex gimp suit, facts about the material, and useful tips that will help you along the way.

Think about the design

One of the first things you will need to think about is the design of the suit. There are many different models you can find, and each has its own purpose and goal. Ask yourself whether you are experienced in the field or not. Is this your first gimp suit? If so, you might want to go slow and get one of the entry models.

The design is mostly based on the parts of the body it covers. Those with experience will be more than comfortable getting a full-body gimp suit that covers everything. You can also find sleeveless models, models with collars, those with or without masks, and so on.

Naturally, you will need to pick what works for you. There are also models with anchor points with rings you can use for bondage, but if you do not plan on using them, there is no reason for you to spend more money than needed. A simple suit that covers arms and legs (or not) is more than enough.

Colors preference

People often believe that black is the only color in BDSM. After all, it works wonderfully well. But it isn’t the only option. In nature, latex is found as a milky white substance in rubber trees. After the extraction and processing, it can have any color you like. Nothing is forcing you to go for black models, even though they are the most popular ones.

The options are limitless. You can find any color you like, and it won’t be hard to find the shade you will adore. But keep in mind that there is a reason why so many people opt for black suits. Picking a light-colored suit will be problematic. At least when it comes to maintenance.

The worst-case scenario would be to go for a white suit. Any type of wear and tear will be noticeable on it, and you will need to be extra careful when cleaning it. But even with that, it is still possible for the suit to start showing stains and marks. Black color might seem too mainstream, but it won’t be as delicate as other colors.

Latex gimp suit thickness

The next thing on the list to consider is the thickness of the suit. This will play an important role in the way you feel and how much you can move. Naturally, latex is a flexible material, and it won’t restrict your movement. But the thicker the latex is, the less stretchy it will feel.

Latex is available in many different sizes. If you want to go for a middle size, it is usually 0.4 mm, but you can find both thicker and thinner models. The thickness of the material will play a huge role for the wearer. Thinner latex will follow your movements, and the stretchiness will allow you to enjoy the experience to the fullest. However, thinner latex is delicate. It can easily be ruined, and you will need to be careful while wearing it.

If you opt for a latex suit made of thicker layers, the material won’t be able to fit the body shape as easily as thinner latex, and it might be constricting. It all comes down to what you are trying to achieve and what you plan on doing with the suit. Both options are valid, and it is a matter of personal choice.

Style and accessibility

The model and thickness of the material are just one step of the process. You will also need to consider the style and accessibility of the full suit. But what does that mean, and how does it affect the couple? Gimp suits are surprisingly popular, and more and more people are willing to experiment with them. As a result, you can find numerous different models and designs.

As we mentioned earlier, the most important thing is what you and your partner want. When it comes to style, you can find models with zippers, buttons, and other ways to put them on and take them off. You might want to consider accessibility since it is important how you will access your partner’s body. Or the other way around.

If you plan on having sex while wearing the suit, you need to have a way to access the important bits. Otherwise, someone will have to sit and wait while their partner works on a complex mechanism. Those that just want to wear the suit can go for any option. But if you want to be able to have access to one’s private parts, you will need to find a suit that allows it.

Gimp suits sizes

Getting the right size works for any piece of clothing, but for latex, the rule is even more important. The nature of the material is such that you need to have a perfect fit. It isn’t something that will work either way. Getting a suit that’s too tight (or too small size) will make it difficult for you to do anything. The suit will be rather uncomfortable. And that’s not something you want.

The entire idea behind latex suits is for them to be tight. But the tightness needs to be natural. Stretching the material to its limits would only hurt your entire experience. In the same way, you would want it not to be loose. It would defy the entire point of latex suits, and it wouldn’t be skin-tight.

So, try to inform yourself of different models and sizes. It will allow you to find a perfect fit and avoid choking or discomfort while wearing a too-small suit.

Cleaning and safekeeping

The final thing you need to do is to learn about cleaning and safekeeping. Latex is a specific material that requires care. You can’t just throw it into a washing machine and wait for it to come out clean.

To clean latex, the best option is to hand wash it in the bathtub. Ideally, you will use lukewarm water and use any soap or detergent that works with latex. Avoid products with a lot of chemicals, extreme temperatures, and anything that could damage the material.

You should also clean the suit after each use. The material doesn’t leave enough space for the skin to breathe, which means that the wearer will probably sweat more than usual. Cleaning after each use will allow you to continue wearing it without any health problems and keep it spotless.

After that, you will need to find a place where you will keep the suit. Find a place that is far from sunlight. If you can, place the suit in a dark place. Wooden hangers are good but pay attention when folding the suit to avoid permanent damage. If you want to be extra careful, you can always fold the suit loosely and put it in a plastic bag.

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Sex Materials: Books that talk about sex and why you should read them

Sex and literature — can it get any better? Well, it’s a slippery slope, really. Reading about sex can often feel pretty cheap, dry, or too clinical. So it’s vital to trust the author before you start plowing through the pages. But who do you ask for a good book about sexual intercourse? Friends? Family? No, it’s too awkward. You can ask us, of course.

With years of experience in the sex department, we’re as reliable as any A-list porn star when it comes to fun between the sheets. So, take a seat, relax, and put your reading glasses on. We’re going to take you through our list of books about sex, love, and all things kinky and dirty.

Redeeming the Kamasutra by Wendy Doniger

The first book on our list is Wendy Doniger’s “Redeeming the Kamasutra.” When you hear the name of the famous Indian book about the art of love and living, we’re pretty sure you’re thinking about weird sex positions and tutorials on how to reach the G-spot. However, Doniger’s work isn’t quite like that. There’s much more to it. The American Indologist’s work is all about explaining why Kamasutra is more than just a sexy present for your anniversary.

The best thing about “Redeeming the Kamasutra” is that it’s super readable. Pretty much everyone can enjoy it. You don’t have to be another Indologist — as if there are many of them out there — to enjoy this book.

Doniger’s book takes us through the way of living, more than just fudging around. If you want full-on porn, go watch it. Wendy is a lot more sophisticated and seems to think there’s more to sex than simple carnal pleasure.

The Wild Woman’s Way by Michaela Boehm

It’s no secret that, after a while, we lose some of that sex magic we had when we were younger. And that’s okay. That’s how life works. But why not spice things up again? Aside from including sex toys in your inventory, why not read a quality book about revamping your private life and bedroom affairs? If you’re into the idea of it, Michaela Boehm’s “The Wild Woman” is a perfect piece of literature to help you out. Here’s why.

Boehm perfectly explains the pressure of modern-day life by dissecting career expectations, romantic relationships, and how it can all be a little too much. Yet, she finds a perfect balance of intrigue, romance, and serious tips on how to handle things on your own without toxic comparisons to others. “The Wild Woman’s Way” is a book that understands how dangerous it is to idealize others and degrade yourself.

Kama Sutra: Amorous Man and Sensuous Woman

Is there a better book on sex than the world-famous Kama Sutra by the Indian philosopher Mallanaga Vatsyayana? No, there isn’t. It’s the bible of lovemaking, making it a necessary read for anyone willing to delve into literotica and other genres that revolve around the art of sexual intercourse and life in general.

Depending on which edition you find, you’ll come across all sorts of illustrations. For some, it will be just enough to make them horny when you see all those quirky but exciting sex positions. Nevertheless, it’s not just about what you’ll see as much as it’s about what you’ll read, of course. In essence, Kama Sutra is the manual on love and life.

Love, Sex, and Philosophy by Travis J Woods

It’s easy to lose yourself today and start enjoying mainstream spirituality and low-key philosophy while listening to cheap podcasts. But some modern books still have that powerful kick classic Russian authors have. One of these books is Travis J Woods’ “Love, Sex, and Philosophy.” It’s a deep and poetic look at life, love, and beauty.

This piece is spiritual. It has that magical way of touching its readers with its indirect messages that make you rethink who you are and what your position in the grand scheme of things is. “Love, Sex, and Philosophy” revolves around the relationship between emotional and physical connections, setting up a unique world for us to explore.

Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel

Similar to “The Wild Woman’s Way,” Esther Perel’s “Mating in Captivity” is a perfect textbook for keeping the flame burning bright after all these years. Of course, this might sound like a cliché, and every other person can write about sex. But Esther Perel is a world-famous sex and couples therapist. She’s practically the real-life Jean from “Sex Education” on Netflix.

Reading a book about sex can often feel dull due to the author’s lack of creativity in describing what intercourse can be with words. Yet, this isn’t the case with Perel’s style. It’s refreshing and quite provocative, making “Mating in Captivity” an enjoyable read, through and through. All in all, it’s a thoroughly enjoyable insight on how to achieve a better sex life.

Three Women by Lisa Taddeo

Not many books about sex were as anticipated as Lisa Taddeo’s “Three Women” from 2019. In her work, the famous journalist immerses herself into three different women in different parts of the United States throughout ten years. The final results are simply fascinating, making this an absolute must-read if you’re looking for a realistic take on love, lust, and desire in the 21st century.

“Three Women” is, unfortunately, nothing short of trauma and sadness too. But both are essential parts of life, and without them, the sex and love bits wouldn’t have the same impact they have. Nevertheless, the way Taddeo writes is absolutely poetic, almost as if her book wasn’t non-fiction. With her guidance, we identify with all three characters, regardless of whether we’d like to admit it or not.

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Making Your Own Candy Dildo!

Making Your Own Edible Sex Toy!

It’s not uncommon for people to use all sorts of products and groceries for masturbation. From wrinkly cucumbers to curvy bananas, you can play around with any penis-shaped fruit or veggie. However, what if we tell you that you can make a completely edible toy penis from ingredients lying around your kitchen? Read on and find out how to make yourself a yummy candy dildo.

What You’ll Need

The great thing about making a toy like this is that you’ll only need a couple of household items to begin. Namely, you’ll need only four of them — a milk carton, vegetable or coconut oil, a phallic model, and some paraffin wax. Here’s why.

The carton of milk will serve as a container for the other three ingredients to mash up. You can use any box-like carton as long as the size fits your future toy. The vegetable/coconut oil will help with greasing up the mold. You’ll pull it out with ease once the wax becomes firm enough.

The reason why you’ll need a mold is pretty self-evident. Well, you need something to leave the empty space for your ingredients to pour into. The wax is there to make sure your mold stays in place. Hence, the end product will come out looking like these toys from LG.

Step 1: Creating the Mold

Your DIY dildo is only as good as your mold is. Therefore, it’s vital to make one that’s firm and well-shaped. To begin, cut your milk carton on one side and place it on your kitchen table so that the open side is looking up towards you. Make sure that the carton is deeper than the toy you want to make.

Once you do that, use the vegetable/coconut oil to grease the toy you’ll use to create the shape of your future candy dildo. Don’t be shy while greasing it up and make sure you get every part of it nice and shiny with oil. By doing this, you’ll allow it to get out of the wax without any fuss and leave a perfect mold for the ingredients to fill up.

Place the greasy toy inside the carton and try to center it as well as you can. The placement is important because you want all sides to be equally covered with wax and apply the same pressure. Next up, you need to heat the paraffin wax. You can do it in any pot.

Once the wax melts, you can pour it into the carton. Make sure there’s enough of it so that you fill it up equally on all sides. When done, leave the carton for a while for the paraffin wax to tighten.

Step 2: Cut the Mold in Half

Now it’s time to get your model out and leave room for your homemade dildo. What you want to do is cut the mold in half and get the toy out. Sure, it might be a bit tricky, but you’ll get the hang of it in no time. So use a knife, scalpel, or any other sharp object to begin the cutting process.

You’re trying to cut it in half, so make sure you follow a straight line across the mold. You don’t want to do a sloppy job because you won’t be able to put the two halves back together afterward. Take your time and do it with precision.

Once you finish cutting, take the model penis out. Leave the toy on the table and begin to grease up the insides of your mold. Again, don’t be shy and use enough oil because your future homemade sex toy mustn’t end up glued to the mold. Join the two sides with either some glue or tape.

Step 3: Making the Dildo

Before we begin to explain the process of penis molding, we’ll list what you’ll need to make your toy cock delicious and good-looking. Check the ingredients below.

1 cup of sugar
⅓ cup of butter
9 cups of powdered sugar
⅓ cup of powdered milk
⅔ cup of white corn syrup
1 tsp of vanilla
¼ tsp of salt

Once you have all these ingredients, put the powdered milk, salt, and powdered sugar into a bowl of your choice. On the other side, place the butter, corn syrup, and ordinary sugar in a pan on the cooking stove. Make sure you don’t burn it, so stir it until it begins to boil. When it starts to boil, stir it for another five minutes.

If you’re going to eat your delicious, large dildo, add vanilla to the pan. Take it off the stove and place it aside. Mix the ingredients from the bowl with the boiling ones from the pan. Pour this mixture into your mixer and turn it on. Once it’s taffy-like, pour it into the mold and leave it to rest overnight.

Reminders When Using It

Sure, your homemade toy won’t look like a realist dildo immediately. It will take time for you to master your skills. However, that doesn’t mean you won’t be able to use your new dildo after the first time. However, before you do so, it’s essential to take a few more steps.

Firstly, when you unmold your toy penis, wipe the oil from it. You don’t want to get the grease inside your vagina when you try it out. If you place something sugary inside your pussy, you risk getting a nasty yeast infection. Also, we suggest you slip a condom over it before you begin using it.

Another tip we’d like to mention is that your DIY toy won’t work well as a strap-on dildo. Why? Well, it’s not made from premium materials; hence, the chances of it breaking while you’re thrusting are pretty big. So don’t overestimate your cooking skills just yet.

Nevertheless, it will work fine as a regular vaginal or anal dildo. If you’re not quite sure about whether it’s too fragile, you can always decorate it. Think of it as your little sexy science project and let your imagination run wild with it.

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Anal play: best practices and toys for sentational experience

Stimulation of the anus is able to excite. Such caresses are relevant for both men and women and you can wear the anal sleeve for the sake of pleasant emotions, for a small expansion of the anus or to prepare for further penetration. Sometimes wearing a butt plug outside is part of an erotic game, aside from the ever trending ben wa balls.

Butt plugs for wearing have a special limiter: it is not wide, and gently holds between the buttocks. At the same time he does not bulge out from under clothes, does not rub soft skin. The inner part is not too wide and flexible, so that any movements are not difficult to perform. Such a sex toy does not hinder movement, but only stirs the imagination.

An example of such a device is an anal chain for wearing the Booty Beads. This is a few balls connected together, they are nice to enter into the anus and feel inside. Butt plug Blue has an anatomical shape, it is able to stimulate the prostate while walking, and during moments of physical exertion it makes every movement very pleasant.

Butt Plug with crystals became bestsellers in America and Europe. These are also the popular butt plugs brought in hotels. Decoration in the style of luxury enchants at first sight. Thanks to its weight, it is ideal for training the muscles of the anus. This is the best way to please and surprise your partner.

Butt plugs can be equipped with additional features, such as vibration. On the Nexus G-Play Medium, the power button is at the bottom, it is not very convenient, because it will be difficult to turn it in a crowded place. But in the model Anal Fantasy Collection Remote Control Silicone Plug is equipped with a remote control with which you can adjust the intensity of movement.

Sex toys for couples are made from quality materials that do not cause irritation. They are hypoallergenic and suitable for frequent and intensive use. Silicone models can be worn in the body for up to 6 hours without a break. PVC options – no more than 3 hours.

How to choose a butt plug for wearing?

To feel the fullness, buy a classic shape cork. It will be felt at any time: in the gym, on a walk, at work. But such a thing is noticeable during the movements. In the stillness is almost not felt.

Sleeves for wearing with vibration are an opportunity to even experience an orgasm in a crowded place. But it is more convenient to buy a sex toy that is controlled from a remote control or from a smart phone. Then it can be included at any time. If the control on the device itself, then, to reach the power button, you have to retire. And these toys are on sale during this season at Love Plugs and we all know we love prices on sale so don’t missed out, visit them now.

Female Vibro-stimulators

Female vibrators for wearing went on sale recently. Previously, only vaginal balls could be used for these purposes, but they helped strengthen the muscles, but did not give pleasure. Today, in the windows of sex shops there are vibrators that can be used anywhere. There are also vibrators used when premature ejaculation kicks.

Butt plug is a vibrating massager that is controlled from a smart phone. In the bosom of a woman, its main oblong part is immersed, while a small tail looks out and touches the clitoris. With the help of a special application, you can turn on vibration at any time, and the toy will begin to move completely silently to the beat. She can even repeat movements to the beat of the music, the composition is chosen by the owner of the smart phone.

Have you ever wondered how a dildo vibrator doubles as a powerful female vibro-stimulator? It’s fascinating how one device can cater to multiple aspects of pleasure, isn’t it? Essentially, a dildo vibrator is designed to provide both internal and external stimulation, making it a versatile tool for enhancing sexual experiences. The internal component mimics the shape and feel of a penis, allowing for deep, satisfying penetration. Meanwhile, the vibrating feature adds an extra layer of sensation that can target the clitoris, labia, or other sensitive areas, effectively turning it into a comprehensive female vibro-stimulator.

Similar device lush- the ball is inserted into the vagina, and the control takes place with the help of Apple Watch. There are similar functions in Lyla 2, as well as in several other types of vibroiites with remote control. All of them can be used for excitement, and if you trust the remote control partner, the game will be much brighter and more exciting.

Vibro-stimulators for wearing are almost always rechargeable. Only in the remote have to buy batteries. Most models are waterproof, which makes maintenance easier. And durable materials do not require special storage conditions. Sex toys for wearing can change a person’s sex life. She turns excitement into a game, and sex into an exciting adventure. And any of these devices is suitable for experiments in a pair.

Butt plug: what is it and how to choose?

Everyone knows that there are several types of orgasm. It can be clitoris, vaginal and anal. Additional caress of erogenous zones will help to make it brighter. For example, if a partner prepares his partner for sexual intercourse and massages her clitoris, then if he just enters the vagina, the woman will get an orgasm faster and much brighter. It also happens with the caresses of the anus.

Butt plug: features of use

Butt plug is a popular toy for sexual pleasures, but few know what it really is for. It is used not only in intimate proximity with a partner, but also in individual caresses. It helps to stimulate the nerve endings of the anus, which ultimately brings a lot of pleasant sensations. The classic model has the shape of a cone, a sharp nose and a stop that prevents the traffic jam from falling out due to the muscles of the sphincter. At the base, it has a wide portion that helps to easily remove the plug and protect it from sinking into the anus.

The ideal option for using it can be considered sex between two partners. During the introduction of the tube into the anus, the diameter of the vagina is significantly narrowed, which ultimately leads to the fact that not only a woman gets a lot of pleasure, but also a man. Cork can also be used individually during masturbation.